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PostPosted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 4:55 pm 
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As the title says, from the past i found it way easier and there's less anxiety when i approach a random girl for a friend in a club,bar, party setting. Since i guess the outcome is not for me, i'm less concerned about what the girl may think. If i see a girl i want it's a bit harder to walk up and talk to her and it occurs less often. I guess i'm more willing to help a friend get a girl then myself.

Just wondering if anyone else encounters this and is there mental help for this?

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 21, 2009 12:31 pm 
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Hi Imnotgetto,

I've encountered this as well. And is actually very logic: you don't suffer from real consequenses, thus SEEMS, I say SEEMS to give better inner game. The truth is that the anxiety inherent to an approach to your own account is what gives you an extra thrill in the later stages of the pickup in case your succesfull.

Also I use a friend of mine, a natural, to go sarge the bigger places. He doesn't realize this, but in pickup terms, he is a machine.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 21, 2009 2:29 pm 
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you simply don't care about the outcome as the outcome is not for you.

I meet people because I enjoy meeting new people. Same effect. No outcome dependency=win.


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