Hey guys was with a gf for 3.5 years and did not think i was that into her, so during the relationship i was not faithful i slept with about 5 girls during that time.. So this is not just one-itis i know i can score other woman. But its the old case of you don't know what you had until you lose it. she never knew about the other woman.

she broke it off and Its been about 3 months now 1st month we did not talk much, 2nd month we reconnected ( i put this down to me not being needy and showing i can survive without her) and started sleeping together she told me she loved etc after this dragged on for a month or so i suggested becoming a couple again to which she agreed then changed her mind. So the last month we haven't slept together and kept in low contact i don't want her to think I'm pining after her as i believe it will fuck my chances up (no one wants what comes easy to them).

Truth is i really like this girl we really clicked during our time together, i have never begged or pleaded with her or done any AFC stuff and that helped me start bedding her again after the 1st month. But that's not what this is about, i enjoy her company and want her back in my life.

Do you guys think its possible to attract her again? if so how? should there be some down time before trying to re-engage her? There is no other guy involved YET. But shes a 9.0 and i know from when i was with her she gets hit on so HARD.
Can i use PUA methods to get this girl back in my life or are they only limited to new girls? She invited me over today for a DVD but i declined so as not to look to interested.. where to from here?

share with me your wisdom

cheers guys