hi... im from a really small town... aprox 350 people.... ive lived here all my life and im 17. growing up here you get to know almost everyone and i was never "that popular kid" . i used to argue and such with most the girls here growing up and when i was around 13 - mid 14 i was very depressed. had no confidence.. and lost out on getting with girls who seemed to have liked me before i shown then i wasnt a very confident person.

ive never been with a girl.. last girl i was chilling with we were making out ontop of my bed when her dad tracked down my house somehow ( not knowing where i lived prior ) and came crashing on are door waking up my parents around 11... after that it just dint work out between me and her and this town doesnt have too many new people moving here or visiting here.

i have basically fucked myself over from when i was younger. and its such a small place i cant just get a fresh start here again. thing is i dont want to be playing mad girls here and there beacuase their isnt enough to do so with.. i just want a simple girlfriend who doesnt irritate the fuck out of me, isnt prude and doesnt have crazy parents.... but that seems like too much to ask for somewhere as small as this...


so i was wondering. what do you "pick up artists" think i could do in a situation that i presented above??


tips or ideas would be appreciated.

1. Over 90% of all guys in your age bracket in your town are going through the same shit. Don't believe for one minute that your experience has anything to do you "fucking anything up".

2. You're not asking for much and if you have some patience and play a brand of game that works in little towns, I'm sure you can find yourself a cute little girlfriend.

Having said that . . . girlfriends and sex are a tiny, tiny part of life. It sounds like you're bored to death over there. I would give some thoughts to traveling abroad to expand your horizons. In the past 3 years, I've stepped foot on well over 10 different cities the World over, (mostly Asia but US and Europe as well) I met a lot of young people who found ways to travel the World, meet incredible people, work and gain experience, while having the time of their lives.

When I was young, I didn't know that anything other than college - work - grad school - back to work was possible. Had I had another chance at youth . . . and knowing what I know now, I would have traveled the World and learned the Global social game at a much younger age.

This is only my opinion but in terms of "global social skills", (For business and social life) I'd put young Americans at the bottom of the barrel.

not from the states...and yes their is some people in my shoes here... and some who arnt...

and yes.. in the past i did really fuck up with a few girls who were into me ..from lack of confidence and not knowing the game at all really... but even a few people i talked to admitted that you have to fail before you achieve....




and yes.. i want to travel and all that but i still dont have a license ( planning on getting my LEANERS this summer )

Most kids are in your shoes and the rest are lying.
One day . . .you will think back to those moments and LAUGH YOUR ASS OFF! (Primarily for the reason you took the little slip ups so seriously . . .)
People who love to say this are either "Lecturing Pick Up Gurus" or "Life-long Pick Up Losers" . . . often times, both.

Seriously though, what exactly is a "failure" in pick up? Can you actually identify "failure" in pick up? A girl didn't kiss you? A few dorks in your neighborhood called you silly names? A pair of chicks pointed at you and called you "lame"? Ohhhh . . . our poor little hearts!!

The reality is that there is no such thing as "FAILURE" with ANYTHING having to do with a silly little horny guy's routine for scoping out potential vagina. Everything in Pick UP is Win, win, and win some more. . . yeah, even in a tiny little village. Failure = Losing your house, losing your family . . . what that weirdo S.C. governor just pulled off, etc . . .

Take it easy on yourself and just laugh through it all.