Swinggcat said that most of the best pua's he knows are serious mama's boys.
So does this mean that if you had no relationship with your mom, you're going to have a lot of difficulty having any relationships with girls? I also read that if you grew up with sisters, then that also helps you to have relationships with girls.

Any thoughts & comments on this phenomenon?

Has anyone had good relationships with girls in spite of having little or no relationship with their mom?

Well I'd like to think that I have both a decent relationship with my mom and my sister but I don't think that has affected me that much in terms of girls. There's actually a whole theory by Sigmund Freud on how boys are attracted to their mothers sexually - and eventually select their mates based on their mom's characteristics.

i.e. if your mother was short, dark haired, even possibly blue eyed, you would most likely rather be attracted to short, dark haired and blue eyed girls.

It has been argued, and of course there is no specific proof, so the connections are for you to make.

Don't think the relationship with mom affects other girls, but definitely helps out with social relationships in general, right?

It is simple logic in my opinion. If you were raised by your mother you will be more feminine and be able to pickup on subtle female cues and behavioral traits. Same with if you had sisters, you will know how to deal with women.

In terms of the partners like mum I don't know much about the psychology but if you are used to seeing women act in a certain way then you will feel at ease around someone who behaves like that.

Raised by my dad, so you could be on to something.

I think your relationship with your Mom is a clear indicator on how you treat women, how women respond to you and how women are affected by you. If you have a good relationship with your Mom then you are open to women's needs and therefore make a better PUA. If you don't have a good relationship with your Mom then try to forge a relationship/friendship with a woman you have no interest in sexually. It is amazing practice for the "1"
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There was a book called "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. He goes in depth into something he calls the "Nice Guy Syndrome". It is a terrible syndrome that results from bad parenting and can serious ruin a man's life. The gist of it is that if a boy has a negative father figure in his life, he will cling to his mother and reject his father. He will therefore attempt to become the perfect man in order to avoid becoming like his father. This puts unjustifiable stress on his life and teaches him many self-destructive behaviors.

The worst part is that he will learn how to interact with women, from a woman (his mom). You cannot learn to be a man by modeling behavior taught by a woman. This can make him very unsuccessful with women.

David Deangelo did a whole video series on this subject, he called it "On being a man". It was pretty insightful.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is that it is all right to be close to your mother, as long as you have some form of a father figure in your life to model your own masculinity after, and as long as you are not close to your mother in some form or dependent or co-dependent way.

I disagree totally with the given co-relation. I have had a pretty strained relationship with my Mom ever since i was a kid. As for girls, i do not think m pretty bad. I had to start from scratch though.

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