So the semester recently started back and I noticed this cute girl in one of my classes.

Usually I don't bother with classmates as those situations can be complicated.

After two weeks I finally spoke to her and got her number.

So I got her number on a Wednesday. Called her twice over the course of five days. No answer or returned call. Keep in mind though that she does not have my number.

So Monday comes and I see her in class but i don't speak to her the whole time.

And after class she is usually the first one out, but on that day she was lingering and socializing.

So i end up leaving and going about my way. I interpreted her body language as avoidance. It was as if she was trying to avoid coming into contact with me.

So yeah, I plan on treating this experience as a failure and moving on. Since we do have a whole semester ahead of us, I would hate to make her feel awkward or uncomfortable in anyway by continuing pursuit.

Just thought I'd share this with you guys and see what your thoughts on it are, if any.

EDIT: When she was lingering/etc... did she keep looking over at you?
If she did, then she was hanging around so that you would come up to
her and talk to her. Like you said, she DOES NOT have your number, so
she might have wanted to ask you if you tried calling her, and how she
don't answer calls when she don't know the number.

Go up to her and say, "I called you but you avoided me like the plague, what's up?"

Or, you could say, "I called you, but I forgot that you don't have my number.
Here, let me call you right now, so you will have my number."
(then call her phone RIGHT THERE ON THE SPOT)

Then tell her, "There ya go, now you can answer when I call."


If you call her around 9 PM (at night), and she don't answer, or does not
return your call the next day around 5 PM ... or she does not come up to
you after/before class and give you an excuse ... then just blow this girl
off and move on.

If she does give an excuse, and it sounds realistic or acceptable, tell her,
"OK. You have to make it up to me. You have to buy me lunch for flaking
on me."

HER: "What. Are you broke?"
YOU: (pull out money) "Who's money is this?"
HER: "What?"
YOU: "Who's money IS THIS (hold it in front of her)?"
HER: "Yours."
YOU: "That's right. If I flaked on you, I would have to buy you lunch.
But I didn't ... you did."
HER: "So?" (or something better, hopefully)
YOU: "So you have to buy me lunch to make up for it."
HER: "No I don't." (or some other bullshit)
blah blah blah


This can go up-hill or down-hill ... which ever way it goes, since you are not
too worried about losing this girl, if it goes down-hill, just walk away, no
harm, no foul...

If it goes up-hill, and she complies with doing something to get back into
your "good graces" then, the more the better... she is now trying to
"win-you-back." She is now putting in the work in order to keep you.

And by her putting in the work to keep you, you should tell her that you
like a girl who takes initiative in order to keep her man happy...

Feel free to revise this to your liking... this is just a rough outline of what
COULD happen. It might ALL be wrong, but you get the jist of it.

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@ Leprechaun

I will definitely consider that.

But I didn't really look back to notice if she was looking my way or not. I just left immediately.

I did plan on talking to her after class about it. But like i said she was lingering/socializing, so I took that as her avoiding me and kept going my way.