Simple and to the point, in my last sarge I was asked if I was gay! To combat this I'm going to gun for more kino escalation.

Do you guys have any suggestions outside of routines? I rep "natural" game based around BL, value and banter and would like to stay away from the generic suggestions such as the ring routing etc!

Cheers,

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You can respond to that with something overtly sexual like, "Do you want to find out?" But I guess that is a canned response.

Otherwise why not just say "No, I'm certainly not."

Simple and to the point, in my last sarge I was asked if I was gay! To combat this I'm going to gun for more kino escalation

pretty sure you didnt mean to say '' i asked if i was gay''/
Did she ask it or did a guy????

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No no, I was asked by a girl if I was gay.

So afterwards, I pondered it and asked a few people ho wI could avoid it in the future. The typical response was kino escalation, which makes plenty of sense.

That said does anyone have a any natural ways of escalating kino? - I'm an atrocious dancer so that's out 'til I learn!

Try reading up on some palm reading, magic tricks, or anything that would involve wowing the women while you can touch them (with their permission of course). If you are showing them a trick and it involves you holding their hand you have instant kino as well as some comfort being built naturally.

If a girl says that to me then I'll typically agree with her. Assuming a far too serious or happy and enthusiastic face, I will say something like, "Yes, completely," then I'll smile and grab her ass or something flirty that makes her think twice. Sometimes I'll just say that and then turn away and the fact that I've dismissed it and been so good humoured about it will mess with her because girls expect guys to over react when someone says that to them.

It's a shit test guys. How do you respond to a shit test? You don't deny and argue and react! You go along, be funny, screw with her head and show her that you aren't phased!

Hell girls LIKE gay guys, so this actually really works to your advantage and if she was fooled or slightly unsure, then you get a lot more leniency. Hell when I pretend I'm gay to screw with girls I usually end up with entire groups of them hugging me, sitting in my lap, feeling me up, letting me feel them up and making out with them. The tend to know that I'm just joking and if not, then when I kiss them they definitely know and they're pleasantly surprised.

Stop being so homophobic and use it to your advantage. Guys, you need to stop trying to control how everything goes and just use anything that comes your way to your advantage and you'll have so much more success. Roll with the punches, don't try to stop them flat out, you'll only get hurt. This is basically the first thing you learn in martial arts or physics; things in motion will stay in motion until something of equal and opposite force acts against it, but then you're left with zero motion and you WANT that forward motion, so instead it is MUCH easier to simply re-direct it than it is to stop it and then start it up again.

If you really want to break down some barriers so that you can succeed better than any of your friends, you need to get over your ego. I've kissed short fat chicks in order to help out my wings because the friend was super hot. I've pretended to be gay in order to keep a girl from falling for me so that my wing could succeed. I also get along with gay guys better than most other straight men can and doing so always ends up with me amazing the girls and getting laid.

If you're not comfortable smacking a guy's ass, or letting him smack yours then you're gonna fall behind because men who are truly secure in their sexuality (which is very sexy to women) aren't afraid to kiss another guy or grab his junk. I'm sure a lot of you are now going to say that that's really gay, but you see people do it all the time on tv and in movies! If you've ever watch MadTV or any British comedy like Monthy Python, you've seen guys kiss and probably laughed. The fact that you're secure enough to flirt with a gay guy in bar, even let him grab your balls, but look him in the eyes and say that you're not gay and actually mean it, you suddenly become radioactively attractive to women.

Now I'm not saying I entirely understand why all this shit works, but it does and I've proven it time and time again. So argue all you like about how you have to convince her you're straight, but if you're truly straight and a real man, then she'll know and you won't have to prove anything because it'll be obvious. Hell the fact that you can do this stuff actually gives you this magic badge that women suddenly see and it gives you the authority to freely grab their breasts or ass, kiss them, eye them up and down, or all sorts of other things that you'll be utterly amazed at even as you're doing them. So before you argue, go out and give it a try and if you're to scared, then don't bother arguing.

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Some points I agree with and some I'll clarify

Firstly, I have absolutely know problems with my sexuality at all (though I know it sounds like I'm undermining my statement by pointing out!) I joke about kipping in guys beds, ass slap, I can appreciate when guys are hot - no worries. You're right it radiates the kind of grounded, self-secure personality that women desire.

My problem was the girl wouldn't allow me to escalate as she was convinced I was gay and as such (in her mind) our escalation towards intamacy would ultimately fail... If I came across as homophobic, my communication needs work

But, your damn right, what I should have done is rolled with it, the specific words would have been irrelevant so long as I wasn't phased by her comment/shit test.

My response was a heavy EC denial, which probably telegraped insecurity, and ultimately my demise

Next time I'll see it as a golden ticket to step the kino up to outrageous levels (and subsequently report).

"Argue" pfft. - I'm a busy man,

Much love,
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