Sup guys. you know i hear this problem with guys way too often but just wanted to get some more feedback. So I can honestly say that girls that I would love to date are attracted to me. However, once I really start getting into a girl, I think I start being too nice to them. This may sound corny but I am not looking for a random hook up rather a long term relationship. So i think i get carried away and start giving her too much attention? What would you guys recommend or any past experiences you guys would like to share? Anyways thank for any help guys..

MD

I used to have the same problem right out of high school! I couldn't keep a girl to save my life...but I didn't have much of a problem gettin them.

Well...I was really interested in this one girl so I decided to try something...which come to find out is common knowledge in the PUA community. Start playing hard to get...cause it works even if you're in a relationship...but one thing I figured out is you have to do it in phases.

A month of leaving her wanting more or making youself unavailable followed up by a month of being really affectionate...dont get needy, just affectionate.

It all works! I dated a this girl for over a year and a half and would probably still be dating had she not moved away! I'm in the military and globe trotting is normal...in fact im moving to Japan in about 2 months!

Hope it works for you!!

-Crain Diesel

I use to have nice guy problem in high school. Then i just stopped caring. I just started making moves and if they rejected me "oh well, that cuts to the chase faster" and can move on. Also the other thing is i always have to remember to NOT agree with everything they like. I still have problems telling an HB10 that i think the movie she likes sucks. But it turns them on way more then agreeing with everything they like so gotta do it.

Forsuree...thanks guys for your help. hopefully I can improve my game with your guys' suggestions. peace!

Personally I don't recommend playing games like C-Diesel is suggesting. It works, no doubt, but it seems dishonest and fake to me and that's not how I want to live my life. If I want to see a girl a lot, I figure out ways to see her. But I do everything because I want to.

The key is in what blazerfan is getting at. You've got to make sure you are decisive, keep your own opinions, stay true to yourself, and own who you are despite whatever she may think about it. You live your life the way you want to live it whether she likes it or not. You've got to be willing to loose her in order to be true to yourself. When you truly start doing that, it'll be a lot less likely that you will loose her. It takes practice, but awareness brings change so keep trying to be as honest and open as possible.

The most important part for most nice guys though, is that they make it sexual. Don't hide your sexual desires. Be completely honest and straight up tell her that the way she is looking at you is turning you on or the way she is talking is giving you dirty dirty thoughts.

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