I approached by far the hottest girl I've ever attempted to sarge the other night in a club. I don't know where my courage came from but I just really liked her style and complemented on how she can really pull off wearing a certain outfit. (At this point it was a 2set, but luckily my wing showed up a bit later to keep the obstacle busy) The target responded with a "thanks, it takes a special girl to pull this style off", which i immediately neg her for. I get her to give me a spin..she complied and started really smiling and getting into the convo. They were standing in the corner, and I have a feeling not many guys did approach her as she did seem somewhat intimidating.

I ran a few routines which worked well, during the ring routine though it came out that she was recently divorced after a 3 year marriage. We had some fluff talk etc.. and things seemed to be going fairly well.

Now this is where it gets interesting. I notice the obstacle and now one of her other friends trying to get her attention. I try to engage the obstacles by trying to run the best friends test. One of the obstacles says "No I don't wanna play that...you make me nervous". I guess since I'm fairly new to this...I couldnt think of what to say back. I'm guessing it has a lot to do with the target's recent divorce and her friends being over protective because of this. What could I have said here?

Also, by her telling me I make her nervous does this mean there is something wrong with my approaching style? I use push-pull, body rock etc... I guess its really hard to see how I look to others when I'm in a club. What are some big things that could make you come across as a guy who makes girls nervous?

Would some response like this work? "Oh I know you want to protect your friend and all, but don't worry im just promising good conversation. Besides me and your friend are too much alike..it would never work out"

Let me know your thoughts. Thanks.

Try it, I could see it having some good potential right there.

That response is pretty good, I'm gonna have to remember that myself!

She was trying to disqualify you is all! Not too much to worry about, I would go with what you came up it sounds solid. One thing though is to try not to let your emotions get the best of you and maintain your frame.
Body rocking should really only be used if you're setting up a false time constraint...So you may have come across as a little figity or nervous.

Overall it sounded pretty good, another thing though, and this is from my personal opinion, is try to use the best friend test earlier on in the sarge. It seems to me that the later on you use it, the more it'll come off as you trying to win her friends over when you should be trying to befriend her friends.

-Crain Diesel