ok so i went out with this girl this past saturday and i kiss closed her at the end of the night (not necessarily makeout but a kiss none the less) and since then ive seen her once when i picked her up to take her to our midterm (were both in the same math class) and when i dropped her off back home we kissed again (a lil more than the first time) and she told me shed like to have a second date...do u think its too early to invite her over my house this friday night?

There is no one size fits all time schedule for dating. It depends a lot on the vibe you are getting from her. If you've done a good job at building attraction and comfort building, you probably could invite her over to your place, but you must do it smoothly. Don't make it seem like you're inviting her over just for sex. It is important that a woman feels you are not just interested in sex, you should make her feel like you're interested in enjoying life and having fun and sex is just a part of that and not your only goal. I like Style's little trick, where he lets a woman see his house in the beginning of the date, doesn't try anything and just leaves, has the date, and brings her back to his much less intimidating house. Maybe try that.

Something that I always like to do on a date is try to make it a somewhat early night. I usually just go get some dinner or get some ice cream and then go for a walk...depending on the weather of course(every woman that i've ever known loves to be kissed in the rain ).

When it's coming close to the end of the date...casually ask her what she has planned the rest of the night. If she doesn't have anything going on then tell her that you don't either but you were thinking about just having a relaxed night at home and invite her over for a movie. I have never been rejected from that...as long as you don't make it sound like all you want is sex.

A few things to remember here are:
1) Play it cool and always be casual! If she does turn you down, don't get upset about it!

2) Try to keep the date as relaxed and casual as possible unless you two are both huge ravenous party animals...in which you shouldn't have much of a problem gettin crazy together! Oh...and if you're gonna invite her over for a movie after the date, try not to take her to the movies before hand!

3) If you're nervous about kissing her(even though you already have), try kissing her at the beginning of the date! Not only will it ease your mind about kissing on the date, but it will relax her a bit more too because lets her know that you're cool and confident...plus its different seeing as most AFC's kiss near the end of the date!

4) Instant kino!!! If you've already kissed then there is no reason why you shouldn't have instant kino on this date! Plus, like the kiss, it'll help relax both of you through the date and it gives you enough time to build a little sexual tension.

Hope this helps a bit!

-Crain Diesel