So what I’ve learned from gaming girls is that one of the worst things is to act needy or desperate (because I’ve done it too many times in the past!). Usually if a girl is into me I just hook up with her, but I like this particular girl more than a random person. From my experiences, I finally learned that I should learn back and act cool when a girl’s into me

Well, this situation happened to me last night. There was a special black tie event at a club. I knew this HB8 from before, but I saw her last night and she wanted to go to the club together. So we were alone going there, but after we got there she disappeared. I eventually saw her later and she was definitely into me.

*this is my main problem*
After I saw that she was interested I didn’t know what to do. I tried to play it cool and act disinterested, but may have done too much by talking to another girl at the bar when I was with the HB. Afterwards I think she wanted to make me jealous because I saw her hooking up with another guy. She may just be kind of slutty, but I’m not entirely sure. I know she is single though. Eventually I just acted too disinterested that she left with another guy that she knew!

So my questions are: 1) What should I have done when I saw that she was attracted to me. 2) Is there anything else that I can do to help my position now? I’ve done a good job working her until last night.

Hey man, im in the same situation you are except im a senior in high school.
But with multiple girls, i've successfully got them liking me, had the opportunity to move forward with them relationship and sexually but after awhile ended up losing them. I could never figure out why, but after a fucked up with a hb9 i reviewed my game. Turns out, I subconsciously change my game from player to afc when i start liking a girl as more than a hookup. Ive seen alot of people do it, and im glad i caught it.
Since being a player is all about the cocky and funny attitude that builds attraction, if you take away the cocky and funny when you like a girl and try to be sweet instead or confused, you're taking away the two personality traits that gave the girl all of her attraction to you. So my best advice is to stay play. Dont change a single thing up on your game and keep up the same stuff you did to attract her. if you get emotionally attached and cant get her out of your head, run game on other girls to get her off your mind. All tested.

If a girl shows interest in you show some interest back but don't make her feel like the prize.

If a girl is into you and you're interested in her, start hitting on her.

Girls want to be desired by guys they're attracted to...

So you need to do what's known in the biz as qualification.

This is the phase where you bait her to tell you cool things about her so that you can show interest in her for something other than her looks.

You can find my definitive guide to it somewhere on the internet for free..

S

bingo!

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

An example of Qualification:

As a kid, what'd you want to be when you got older?

REALLY! How cool! (Don't fake this. You can say it somewhat disinterestedly if it's not that cool to you, but don't neg it.)

So what have you done, or are you doing to pursue _______?

You know, I can really respect someone who has it in them to pursue their dreams.