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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:01 am 
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I've been talking to this girl for about a week now and she is doing everything that we PUAs do, and she's doing it better than me. She's beating me to the "end the convo" first, being a bigger smartass than I am, and makes it extremely difficult to kino with her. It's like she read "The Mystery Method". It's weird too because she got out of a 3 1/2 relationship about a month ago. So she hasn't been doing this to other guys, and if so, not that many.

Has anyone have this happen to them before? If so, what the hell do I do?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:17 am 
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I think what you need to do in this situation is TAKE ACTION! The next time you see/talk to her, as long as you're up to it, tell her you're taking her to (certain place for a date) at (time), and that she should get ready for a very fun time, or something like that.

Basically, don't give her a chance to use her "game" and confuse you. If you let her know your plans before she has a chance to do anything, you have the upper hand in the situation IMO.

There is a girl I like now. I'm being myself around her which is good, but she can get into my head at times like no other girl I've knows (seemingly she could read me a little bit). She even had this little smirk like she knows she can read me at times (and I don't think I'm all that predictable). :shock: To prevent this from really getting to me, I caught her attention one day and then told her I was taking her to coffee this week at (time/day/place) and she said yes. There was no way her games could distract me at that point, and she knew it.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 5:21 am 
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I tried that! She always uses this line "Don't assume that I can go out" because she does work a lot. However, if I tell her to call me later that night she'll say "No promises." I have no clue how to respond to that.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 6:03 pm 
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I tried that! She always uses this line "Don't assume that I can go out" because she does work a lot. However, if I tell her to call me later that night she'll say "No promises." I have no clue how to respond to that.
Maybe it's just me, but I like having the ball in my own court. In this case, I'd tell her that I will call later, not have her call me back (because she might not). As for the girl I like now, she texted me late on night to ask what the plans were for our coffee date...I told her that I would call back tomorrow (I did not say "call tomorrow and I'll let you know") because I know my own gameplan lol. She was left wondering, but the next day, as promised, I called her and gave her all the info she needed to know.

As for this gameplaying or w/e, maintain your frame. Don't get thrown off by the games. If she says this bs again, ignore her for a while! She won't know what's going on...if she likes you, she'll call you back. If she doesn't like you, just move on.


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