I can tell that you haven't really been doing this for long, cos there's a lot of inner game stuff you don't seem to understand. If you understood even some of the stuff that I do right now, you wouldn't be having these kinds of problems. You'll be well on your way after a bit more questioning though, so let's get on with it.
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well i don't really approach girls that i don't know
Why not? You're really limiting yourself by sticking to girls you know already, and you're more anxious about fucking up when it comes to girls in your existing social circle so it's no wonder you're holding back so much.
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and i try to talk about topics that won't put me on the spot
Give some examples of stuff you normally talk about. And riddle me this, what is it that you
really wanna talk about? I have to know this stuff if I'm to help you get around to it because it's all a matter of escalating and directing the conversation where you want it to go.
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and i don't talk sexually because i know they won't take me seriously and it's just frustrating, and i've tried spitting game on some females but it never works out.
You don't want them to take you 100% seriously when you frame things sexually early on. The idea of this is to get them used to you being sexual so that later on when things are escalating it is a lot more natural and comfortable. And because they're expecting it, the fact that they let you away with it at this stage is an IOI in itself.