As ye can imagine, this has affected me a lot.
I was in the offices briefly on Monday for my hearing, and I said a very short hello to this girl who likes me there (I know this because she once asked if I was interested in going to her house, and another time she asked me if I wanted to have lunch with her. I asked a female friend about what this meant and she said "DUH!"). I like her too and I want to carry on talking, but what ways can I put a good spin on this and not have it DLV?
Thanks.

Unless this was an important job, or you did something that, in itself, is a DLV, i don't think it's a problem. I'm dating three girls, and i just got fired, and it did nothing but have them all "awwww are you okay?" me constantly.

Now, if you were in a relationship, and were the sole supporter, that would be a DLV, but as of right now, your life does not effect hers. So no problem there dude.

Just go if it, you worked with her right? well, if anything, this is a far better situation cause i've done the 'sleep with girls you work with' thing and it doesn't last all that long, and it's more drama than anything if the girl isn't really cool.

Always remember you are 40ft tall and made of diamonds. Its your attitude that the girl senses not the events of your life. Brush it off.

She likes you bro. Close it. Don't let a DLV haunt you so much that you ruin Foolsmate.

You dont have to do this, but this is what I would do.

After you have been gone awhile pick a day. On that day you walk into the place like you own it. Catch her completely off guard and ask her if she wants to go to your place. If it works, you are goign to close and congradulations. If it doesnt, It still doesnt matter, you are invincible.

It is one thing to have fake confidence. Its another to believe in the confidence you own. Own your confidence.

This girl likes you clearly. The GAME is over. You won, get in there and cash in. Enjoy every ounce of it.

-Blast

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