i have one itis on this girl i knew last year, i did bad when i first met her, but i ahve given it some time and i think my last mistakes are, well, in the past. i takl to her online sometimes, but is there anyway to get her into a sexual conversation, im afraid that im going in the direction of the ljbf zone. there is a tiny bit of sexual tension between us. oh, and btw, this girl is SUCH A TEASE, she led me on. i feel like she doesnt want a relationship, how do i help her make up her mind about having a relationship , she doesnt seem to have ever had a bf, and im really wondering why she turns down guys, cuz two or three guys have asked her out and she said no. so im wondering, how do you recover from a potential past mistake, is there no way for me to get this girl. and if the answer is no, then i really will take the advice and not advance towards her anymore.ps. i like having oneitis kinda..

trying to escilate sex talk online will just make it weird, you need to meet in some sort of social SPAM, either a party, or if you know her well enough, meet for lunch or something, and work it up there. i think you need to do a personal escalation if you have known her a while, trying online and texts will make it weird IMO.