Hey guys so real quick question,

Im friends with a few girls and one of thier roomates (HB 9) that I guess I could call myself friends with apparently wants to hook up with me. We are all going out to a house party tomorrow night then back to thier place to smoke hooka where I can crash on thier sofa if I want (but hopefully in her bed).

Anyways just wondering how I should play it out tomorrow... show interest in her or kinda dismiss it?, build HDV?... so please give some pointers so hopefully at the very least I can k-close.

Thanks as always

Don't dismiss her, she needs to know you find her attractive, but don't climb inside her ass either. Show her some attention, make her feel all warm and toasty inside, then detach yourself and rejoin the party.

If she comes looking for you, reward her with some more attention, then take it away again. Push/pull my friend, it's a great method for keeping her guessing (which is what you want).

You don't 'ever' want a girl to figure you out, always keep them on their toes.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I would add to that: don't make your night depend on her. Often a "soirée" can be ruined by depending on other. you make a plan, try to follow it, but because of unexpected events caused by the other pple in the plan (ex: friends, the girl) the whole plan just messes up, u might get upset or offtrack, & others notice. u dont look as fun so they don't act as fun around you and things get worse. So don't make a plan in ur head how ur gonna do this, just play cool

Theres a story that goes like this: 4 guys, 2 girls, 1 cottage. 2 guys got laid that night, but which two? First two guys tried to flirt with the girls, and the two others were just relaxed, not really minding the chicks. Oddly enough the last two got laid that night, and thats because they didn't seem needy. theres a difference between being attracted & being needy.
Sindul said: she needs to know you find her attractive, but don't climb inside her ass either. that means "yea I'm attractive, so what? ur an atractive person!"
u should show her that ur atracted but be ready to walk away because u dont need her, ur not desperate, ur not eager and ur not impatient. Thats how to describe a real man! and a real man gets laid when he wants to.

A real man is just there,he go by the name of Chillin'
that real man, it's in you, u just gotta bring it out.

ha good stuff guys thank you for that... gonna do a little push/pull (which I really need to work on) and try to act normal and cool. Well see how it goes.

If ya got anything else let me know