I've managed to get my ex to agree to sleep over my place Friday whilst my mum is interstate. She has a boyfriend but has given me no resistance in coming over.

Last time I saw her was in October. At this time she still had the same boyfriend (which I completely ignored) but was definitely giving me IOI's such as initiating touching as we walked around a shopping centre and did not talk about him.

I have arranged to put on a movie for us to watch.

My questions are:

How should I handle the situation?
How can I increase the likelihood of her sleeping with me?

I have put a lot of research into PUA for the last few months such as reading a lot of David DeAngelo material, Swinggcat material, The Game, Mystery Method and a visual guide on body language for attraction and how to read it on a woman.

I have noticed that over the months I have been learning this PUA stuff, girls give me a lots of IOI's and flirt with me as opposed to earlier this year. I act cocky + funny most of the time and I can see the results.

Thank you in advance.

hmm she an ex so you already have a past physical attraction. Now its just about your mental game. Push and Pull. make it feel like its just a "friendly" get together. Take her frist Advance at you as a mini shit test. She probably want to know if she got you still wrapped around her finger. Stop her there. assert some Authority . Be like " hey i'm not that easy anymore." kino, kino ,kino. If you remember how to push her buttons do it (if your goal is trying to bed her agian). Now if she goes about trying to talk to you about her "b/f", Stop her, dont let her bring it up.. good luck

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Thank you. Is there anything else?

Well on Friday, I got heaps of IOI's. I made fun of her heaps and had her laughing the majority of the time. She kept hinting at sex through comments and I am sure she was into me.

When we went to bed, she kept asking me sexual questions. She was not resistant to my touch at all. After awhile of talking, I tried to use the mystery kiss close method tho which she gave no reply and just turned her head. To combat this, I just removed my attention and turned my body away from her. She then asked me if I was annoyed at her and I said no I'm fine.

A minute later I started, kicking her playfully and made her laugh. From then on I tried to build more comfort by asking open ended questions. After this things got interesting. She faked being a sleep most of the time but permitted my touch on her ass and allowed me to move my hand upwards. Because I couldn't reach as her legs were closed together pretty close. I tried to use 2 steps forward 1 step back by stopping then starting again. Eventually she rolled over and moved my hand on top of her shorts where I rubbed her through her underwear. I then tried to put my hand down her pants but the distance was too far because she had my arm locked off. She then took my hand out momentarily later and put it down on me.

Around now, I think we both fell asleep and woke up like an hour later. At this time, I put my hand on top of hers and opened it to link our hands which she allowed. Soon after, she re adjusted and grabbed my hand properly and embraced me.

This was all the happened at night. We woke up in the morning at about 11 and just had a long chat on the night. I then took her to the bus stop.

I never managed to K-close or F-close. I think it could be because of her connection with her bf but I feel if I didnt use the mystery kiss close, I could have kissed her. She let me touch her face and hair all the time. Not once did she bring up her bf but he was her phone wallpaper and sorta showed me it often but eventually changed the wallpaper. After we left, I said we will have to do something again in the holidays and she agreed. Just as she was leaving, she said next time make sure its on a week day as a bus did not come and she had to ring up her mum to pick her up.

The next day, I gave her my approval in a text and made a joke about her but never received a reply. I feel like this is the closest I have ever been to her even though I didnt kiss her this time.

Advice or opinions would be helpful.

I've managed to get my ex to agree to sleep over my place Friday whilst my mum is interstate.

If you have to get a girl to 'agree' to do anything, chances are her IL is LOW. If her IL is low, you are wasting time.

The way things panned out for you comes as no surprise. If anything, the night turned out great for her because you spent the night stroking her ego and making her feel 'wanted'.

Also, messing with another guy's girlfriend is sleezy and can cause more drama than she's worth. There are to many single girls out there to be messing with one that is taken.

Don't waist any more time with this girl.

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I should have worded that better. I asked her and she said she could. I didn't do any afc behavior there.

I don't believe I was played as I didn't give into any of her games and she gave me plenty of IOI's. Most of all, we just had fun mucking around. The fact that she came over to sleep over at mine whilst having a bf tells me that he isn't as important to her as I first believed. And because this wasn't just an average meet up and her agreeing to it tells me that she wants to be closer to me. Also, as we are both 16, she told her mum that we would be sleeping in separate beds and that an adult was at home just so she could stay over.

I am still going to keep contact with her between once and twice a week but I plan on arranging another meeting in the holidays, if not more. I realise this may sound like oneitis but I do not consider myself a pua as I don't have a desire to always go out and get a girl, I just plan on learning the information to be more successful with any woman I choose, and I can see it gives results from the amount of attention I get these days.

And I feel that I am nailing attraction....