Hey, ive been friends with this girl for about 4 years and lately we've been hanging out alot more often and im starting to like her more than a just a friend. I dont wanna fuck up the relationship by telling her how i feel. i just dont know what to do. any thoughts?

I'm sure others will have more insightful tips, but the goal is to create attraction. Sicne you've been FRIENDS for four years, you need to build up that attraction. Be "busy" a little more often so she misses you (maybe not see each other for a couple weeks?), use C&F, neg her a little, etc.

I'm no guru at this, but you have to subtly walk back from the friend zone, give it a little time (don't be around as much), then start doing what you normally do with a girl you're attracted to.

After 4 years, you are firmly planted in the friend zone. Getting her IL up (which is what you want), will be difficult, but not impossible.

Don't tell her how you feel, that is sappy and needy. If anything, show her you are into her by flirting, but don't over do it, do it in spurts. Flirt just enough to get her attention, then back off.

You can try the push/pull technique, but again, do it in spurts. Little by little she will start to notice your interest, but she will be confused because you have been friends for so long (perfect).

If she comes out and asks you about the flirting, you can play it off by saying 'what, you are crazy'. Now, she is not sure what is going on (which she will like) because her IL is starting to creep up and she can't figure out why.

You have one advantage here, the Taboo aspect of being attracted to your 'friend'. NOW you have something to work with because if there is one thing that girls love, it's the Taboo.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

4yrs!!! You're so deep in friend zone its not funny you're just gonna have to tell her.

You can push/pull and flirt to no avail even Friends can do all that and she'll just take it as nothing more than you being friendly.
Pretending to be busy wont help you either since she has no clue you even like her

You've to got be willing to risk to be able to gain

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