I have a lot of questions as a RAFC and future PUA, but I want to ask:

When is it too soon to make a date with a girl and when is it too late?

I got this girl's number not too long ago and when I see her I can usually get her to DDB on me. I wanna make plans for next week (during the week) but its Friday tomorrow, is 4-6 days in advanced too soon?

I would ask sooner up, but I'm afraid I'm getting a little too close to the friend zone. I've only known her for 2 weeks.

In my experience, it really depends on what the date is. If you are making a date waaaay in advance, there had better be a reason for it. I kind of operate somewhat spontaneously though, so I'm known for making dates only a couple of days in advance. I would say 4-6 days is pretty standard though.

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-That's my two cents...

I'm not the most succesful guy with getting dates, but I'd call her and schedule something for a Mon/Tues/Wed/maybe Thurs. If you don't know her real well, go somewhere small like a coffee shop, it gives you an "out" if things aren't going well, and you won't be stranded. If you two click, then you'll be able to set up another date, one that you know will be your money's worth.

4-6 days seems fine to me. Just have a plan of what/where/when once you make the call. I'd call her whenever you're free (soon)...strike while the iron is hot and you don't want another guy swooping in to ask her before you get the chance.

4-6 days isn't bad, but know that the further out you plan things, the more likely it is that things that can come up or she can forget about you (if you didn't really build that strong A&C), resulting in her flaking. Earlier this fall, I was going on a trip to London for a week but I wanted to set up a date for the weekend, so I set something up with this girl on Monday. She ended up flaking because her friends dragged her out for a party weekend in Berlin, so what can you do - things come up. If it's possible, I'd suggest setting something up a little closer to the day of, especially for that first date where she still might not remember you too well and might not be entirely convinced that she wants to see you.

As far as too late, it's never too late, and she can be excited about a last minute invitation if she's got nothing planned. Of course, that's the issue: the closer you get to the day, the more likely you can expect her to already have plans....