ok....This girl requested me as a friend on myspace, so we exchanged a few messages about shared interest in music ( and she thought I was attractive), this lead to instant messaging, where we talked more....I was playing it cool being a little cocky and a little funny, and busting on her now and then....this lead to a phone conversation....we seemed to hit it off well....so she suggested we meet and hang out.... great right......here's where it gets weird....In the beginning I was honest about my situation as a student in college and holding down a job and that I didn't have a lot of time. Due to school I live with some relatives, and I don't have a cell phone at the moment.....I let her know this.....The day we were suppose to meet up, I checked to see if i had to work I didn't and I messaged her to let her know it would be cool to meet up that day( we had agreed that if I didn't have to work we'd hang out), well i keep my Instant messenger open while waiting o a response this (I checked about work at 8) I checked my messages every once in a while until 12 pm....no answer....so I go about my business and shut down my computer and head out for a while, cause it's no big deal. Well when i check my messages later I get something like this: " I get the feeling that you aren't all that interested in me, so I'll quit pestering you now......If you're interested , you know how to contact me.....prove it!" She had removed me as a friend on myspace and everything

so I send this response :
"What the fuck is that?.....I left a message on im.....saying I had nothing to do today....and after it was like 12 pm or so....you hadn't answered....so I ended up doing some schoolwork and other shit cause I figured you had something to do.....

I don't have constant access to a phone. I told you that.

I think you are cool as shit and all, but I ain't trying to be questioned because I didn't sit on myspace all day and wait on your response.

We can still meet up and hang out and shit and everything is still cool...but you cant just go and assume shit because that's how drama starts.....if you have a problem with me ask me about it straight up and I'll answer straight up....but I don't have time for proving anything to anybody."

SO that's what happened lol.....and I don't get it.......I would like for someone to analyze this situation and tell me what the hell is going on! lol and also if I handled it correctly

anyways sorry for the novel but wanted to give as much info as I could. :?:

UPDATE.....

She sent me a message to apologize saying that sometimes she assumes things....

weird....but that's why I'm here, to learn how to understand the creatures called women!