I was talking to this girl 6 months ago. Ive clearly introduced my self but not sure if she remembers or not. I want to reopen to her but do not know what approach to take. Should I open like I do not even recognize her?

No no . . . because you're starting off with a lie. Sure she might be receptive to it if she wants to reconnect with you but even with a "white lie" she'll think, "What else is this guy going to lie to me about?"

Try to remember 1 element of that conversation or about who this girl is or what she wore . . . Start off with something like:

"Hey _____ , What have you been up to? The funniest thing . . ."

--- Then you bridge 6 months ago with today -----

"The other day, I saw this coolest ________, and it totally reminded me of the _______ you spoke about. I can't believe that was 6 months ago . . ."

She'll go something like, "Right . . . you're _____! How have you been?" - Great! We're right back to where you want to be . . .

But prepared for the , "I'm sorry, do we know each other?" or "We met? When?!?" Hey, this is a REALLY good sign. What she's telling you is, "yeah, I think you're cool but do really you think you can just forget me for 6 months and I'm going to open up to you right away? Not without passing this test you're not!"

Then you just stay in your "I'm happy to see you again" frame, and do the melodrama routine, "What? Ohh . . ." (Clutch your heart) "You're breaking my heart! Remember? We met at _____ with _____ and ______?" (Just explain it)

She'll go, "Right . . . you're ______! How have you been?" Again, we go right back to where you want to be.

Sometime this week, I have to go back to this club and do something similar to this singer I know . . .