Alright, so I'll get right to it.

I have extremely high energy.
The best word would be chipmunk.
Imagine a pretty girl being run by a chipmunk, that's me.

So I'm a very intimidating girl in a club, or anywhere else for that matter. Especially since alcohol makes me giggly.
I tend to bombard boys with sexual information too. I think it'll make me seem more appealing, but I take it too far and end up creeping them out.

So I need some help calibrating my energy, any strategies you people might have to help me with it would be greatly appreciated.

Cinnamon

Awesome, I love the stuff you're asking Cinnamon, actually interesting questions. And no I'm not just saying that cause you're a chick, you're actually asking much more clear and useful questions than a lot of the guys do. This is why I want to get into coaching women more than just guys, every girl I've seen on here or coached elsewhere has asked better questions, lol!

Ok, as for your question, we've got a rule to use for that. I typically don't use rules, but this really is a rule that needs to be followed 99.99% of the time if you want to have good interactions with people, not just the opposite sex. Enter with your energy 1% higher than theirs and then don't go more than 10% more or less than them during the interaction. If you go higher, then you creep them out because you're too intense. If you go lower you bore them or even depress them.

I'd also suggest improving your knowledge and skill with body language and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). Having a better grasp of those will improve your communication skills so that you communicate more effectively what you mean, as well as being able to understand what they mean better and be able to see how they are reacting to what you are saying to them too. That means that when you start talking about sexual things you can see how they are taking it and you will be able to tell when you're saying too much and when it's still getting them turned on. This will drastically improve your rate of learning by being able to analyze situations better and more thorougly without even having to think about it.

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