My senior year in high school i was in an LTR for a few months and i was major afc and shy. Never really pursued lots of sexual contact even though i wanted it. kind of that im to scared if i try something extreme. But the main reason i didnt F-close her was because she said she didnt want to.

anyway its been a copuile years and im coming home for christmas break from college. She wants to hang out. we talk a few times but she says she has changed since the old days.. for example she drinks now and she never did before... i nver ask her about sexual stuff and boys in her life whatver...

obviously the attraction is there because we only broke up because of distance. what i want to know is how can i build sexual attraction via texting so that when i get home and hang out we will want to do some bad things and stop beating around the bush?????

example..... when we text and have normal conversation like so what do you wanna do when your back home??? how do i progress from here?? what kind of questions and game should i go with???


thanks

Instead of trying to build up sexual attraction, try to build up mystery and suspense. Restrain yourself from answering questions directly, or asking generic questions yourself. Always end conversations with her wanting more. For example start a thread "You won't believe what happened yesterday...(or whatever)" and then when she replies "I got to go right now, I'll tell you later." And then don't bring it up again, let her ask.

Things like that will keep her thinking about you and wondering. From this shroud of mystery she will feel an attraction towards you.

I hope this helped.

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Just don't get one-itis after you finish the job.

Don't ask her what she wants to do. "Hey I gotta go to x at x time, come tag along"

Once she comes with you you can take her anywhere you want.

Keep the texts short. Definitely do NOT sexually escalate through texts. Just set up a time and meeting.

I actually was visiting UGA this weekend. Met this girl and she was being rather flaky because she didn't want to stay out to late because she had to be up in the morning. I realized I wasn't going to see this girl again so I decided to push the envelope and text her this:

"Seriously, we both want the same thing. Give me your address, I'll pick you up at one. All we need is about an hour, then I'll take you back home"

And she agreed.