i completely agree with jovi.
i wouldn't call it a shit test if she honestly needs help with it but don't stand her up just to stand her up. don't believe that myth that you have to be a jerk to get the girls. carry her bags if she honestly needs help with them, but make sure you get in your two cents.
something like "so thats how you view me huh? a bellhop? thanks a lot, hun.

" and pick up the bags. (might lead to some role-play later

)
or maybe a "geez, high maintenance are we? you know there's a 50 lb weight limit right?

"