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PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 8:53 pm 
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Ok was on msn about 20mins ago, chattin to this girl who is potential GF, she was with her friends

and I was quite off with her and didnt text her back today either and she asked me whats wrong "grumpy" i was like nothing just cause i didnt text you back dont mean im in a mood and she was like whatever twat, and i said if your going to be like that im going out, she was like "ok" then I said your such a fuckin dick sometimes and signed off :(

I feel a little bit bad but I feel I have a reason to be pissed off its not all a big reason,

but shes with her friends, do i text her saying sorry? if so what do i say and how long do i leave it?

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 9:27 pm 
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oh yeah, forgot to mention, before we had a fall out she said to ring her later, to which i replied "i cba" lol do i ring her?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 9:55 pm 
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You were a bit of a dick, so I'd appologize. I'd just let her know that you were in a weird headspace or not in a good mood or whatever and what she said pushed your button. Dismiss it as not a big deal, because shit like that happens. Don't make a huge appology, just one that is called for.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:12 pm 
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Don't dismiss it, whatever you do.
You'll come off looking like an even bigger dick.
Come up with a nice little 'I'm sorry' message and text it to her.
Be honest with her, tell her you were in a weird head-space and offer to make it up to her, you could treat her to coffee or lunch. Don't go for dinner and a movie yet, those comes in big on the date-radar (Unless that's what you're looking for). Let her know she's special to you and all that.

Do it right, and you could be looking at a nice transition from being a dick to being her boyfriend.

But definitely say sorry. You will learn this over time, even if you don't know what's wrong or how to deal with it, a hug and an 'I'm sorry' go a long way.

Good luck,

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