Hey,
When I'm out pulling I tend to be always smiling and laughing and very cocky... just wondering if it's actually a bit detrimental to always be like that when ur going for a girl, as quite a lot of ppl here seem to write about acting like u don't really care sometimes to make u seem not needy, as in saying 'whatever' and not looking interested as part of the whole push pull thing.
Comments? Cheers!

your problem is my problem

sometimes u just have to walk away.

you have to be in control. you and playing a push pull game with them

they are the prey u are the predator

u leave them wanting u

you dont smother them with your humor or energy

i have ur problem

push and pull my friend

some people have the opposite problem acting too nonchalant, these are the high school prep types. its detrimental...

whats wrong with laughing and smiling?
it shows you're having fun.
that has nothing to do with being unaffected.

being unaffected refers to not caring whether you lose the set or not, not reacting to her shit tests etc. why? because you're cool like that and you dont need them to have fun.
want some push pull? dhv with a cool story and neg your target. simple.
girls arent attracted to guys who dont smile or laugh because they drag the collective energy down. dont be a killjoy.

the problem comes in if you're a clown/performing monkey who constantly just craves attention. thats not good. that's being needy.

yeah well if u keep your energy too much especially with the same people if this isnt a 1 time meeting you seem fake... and u will eventually be interpreted as a performing monkey or they will think you are on crack

agreed, but that's where calibration comes in.

i never said that you should always have high energy, in fact you should only open a set with an energy level just above that of the group. from there you drop it to their level after you've reached the hook point.
but if you're standing there and everyone is smiling and laughing and you have a poker face going then you will be the guy who doesnt know how to have fun. you can use this as a neg at times but thats it.

not laughing or smiling shows that you're not enjoying yourself and that you're bored. so if they're not entertaining you then why the hell are you still in the set? why would a man of value hang around people who bore him?

see where i'm going here?
now, i'm by no means saying that you should constantly be laughing and smiling... but there's a difference between having fun and being a clown. know where to draw the line.

yeah i fucked that up today. i was between a rock n hardshit

cuz this girl was all excited but she wasnt that cute and all her other friends were over kinda seeing us and i didnt want to act too excited to be with the girl i should have just left.

its all good. i also was very tired lol... and very full i ate way too much food and felt like i could puke

Cheers guys! hxc87x's comment about coming in with energy just above the set's then dropping it makes really good sense to me. I'll keep it in mind.