so there is this girl i have known for a while, we sorta always had somethin... but always been friends till now. i have gone on 1 date so far and will soon be going on a second, but im not sure how to k close her. i dont want to fuck this up and make it awkward between us, so naturally im pretty nervous. btw this chick is an HB 10

ADVICE?

Make yourself as comfortable around her as possible. Be touching her constantly, whether that means light taps on the shoulder, a hug, or whatever. If she is comfortable with you being physical with her, then a kiss is not really such a big leap. There are many routines or trust test you can use, but you don't have to. If you are good company and are kino'ing a lot, then you should hit a moment where you think to yourself "gosh, should I kiss her right now?" The answer is yes. If you ever feel like it may be a time to kiss her, it is the time.

JUST DO IT. You probably have some psychological nook in your head telling you that 'if I go for the kiss I might scare her off!'

NO. It is the complete opposite. If you do not go for the kiss, then she will lose interest and be eliminated as a possible mate.

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Right when u meet her for the date, a big hug and a big smack right on her cheek. This is socially acceptable. Now, one innocent one is done and out of the way. While saying ur, "Hello's", stare right at her eyes and lips as if to say . . . Hmm. . . I want more. (People get turned on by turning others on)

This topic comes up over and over again but don't be put off by "tests". If you escalate kino up and beyond her "test line" and she smacks ur hand away. Don't stare at her hand. Look at her face. 100% of the time if she's testing U, she'll have a dopey smile on her face. Keep pushing the line.

Also, a great kiss always comes from great kino. If u start from a mile away, and she's staring at u coming, there's too much time to psych ur selves out of it. Some favs that I like:

When sitting next to each other, just grab her hand and put her palm up. (yes, yes . . . it's another stupid palm reading trick with a slight twist) Look at her palm lines. Trace her lines with your other finger. Turn ur head like ur putting some serious thoughts to this. Flex her palm, massage gently, etc . . . You go, "Hmm . . . "

She'll go, "blah blah blah?
You go, "What? No . . . I just wanted to hold your hands. You're gorgeous."

If she yanks her hands back, ur done but . . . NEVER EVER had I had a girl yank her hands back. I mean we're talking 100% here even in bars/clubs, just met, whatever. All you'll get is a stare right back in ur face while she licks her lips and swallows and whatever. Don't lunge. Just put one hand behind her head to keep any last second turns. Once she feels her head is secured in ur head clamp, she'll give in to your YANG.

Have fun.

wow man, thats real good shit

I am going to try this out this weekend...

I usually just pause in conversation as in she is talking all the time she is talking just be staring right into her eyes, through a wincey bit of coyness in the mix, look from her eyes to her mouth then back up etc and she will stop talking then leave a pause. This should feel awkward then hold eye contact and move in. Job done

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