I met this girl a few weeks ago at a club.

We hung out last week at a lounge after work for about two hours. Things went well, we talked the entire time.

She texted me the next day and said she saw a Prego Commercial (I told her I use Rague sauce when cooking the night before, she's Italian, makes her own) So I took this as an IOI. She also said she had fun with me.

We were going to hang out on Friday but she texted me and said you're not going to believe this, but I am staying in and going to bed tonight.

I negged her, I said "I know you said you felt old, but dam, not this old". She said Ouch and laughed it off. (This isn't the first time she had an excuse for not coming out)

So, should I text her back? She can't text during the day at work, but she can use her email. I have not talk/texted her since this past Friday.

Should I email her, what could/should I say......?

THANKS

"No worries luv, I'll see how you make it up to me =)"

I have somewhat of a basic guideline rule now that comes from a former student of mine Elev8 who became amazing. Basically two strikes and the girl is out. If by the second time I go for a meet and she rejects I just move on or wait for her to chase if she does.

Hope this helps

Psych

Ok i have done something like that before. I said you will just have to make it up to me and take me out to dinner ; ).....

This was the first time she canceled. The other times were just "maybes" if we could meet up if we were both out. It was more like "Let's play it by ear" than an actual plan.

So i guess you can say she has 1 strike against her, haha...

yeah i say when you invite her out agian and she blows you off i say move on. its not worth it.

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