I was about to f close an HB7 but nothing I did could break down her LMR. She's used to having boy toys and says that I'm different cause I make her work for everything and I don't let her have her way. So pretty much when the LMR came up, I thought nothing of it. I tried a couple of techniques but nothing could smash it. I'm just guessing but I think she is worried that she'll lose me if I get it too early.

You have to make her feel safe. Re-assure her that you truly like her for whatever reasons that make her special to you. Be more gentle and loving rather than just about getting some sex. I'm not saying turn into a complete mr. niceguy, just show her that you want more out of it than just a quick lay.

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It is difficult to help you if we dont know what you want with the girl.

If you want her as a ONS and then dump her and never speak to her again then yes, tell her whatever will work and pretend you are gonna be there for her forever and ever. This is a bit bad... but Im not here for moral guidance.

If you want to keep her as a friend then you should not have sex with her if she feels that this would change things between you. Well, she has to know that this is your intention if this is what you are going for. I just told a girl that for me to have sex with a friend is just fine as long as she can tell the difference between sex and love. If she cannot then I would rather pass. (She appreciated it.)

If you want to turn her into a LTR you should do as in the first example but honestly.