So there is this girl at my school who is a bitch to me and my friends. When we go to new places and she's there, she says shit about us to other girls around and then she talks shit to us. What should I do?

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Hey,
As a playa you can't let anyone one disrespect you. I lose respect and interest in chicks if they tried that. You gotta be a man a tell her to stop spreading that shit because that's not cool. If you let her continue you will, lose value in women's eyes, have a lose in confidense, and then the shit will really hit the fan.

You have to stop her. Don't be mean about it, just tell her it's not very cool and she should stop. Negging her would just make it worst. You got to be serious, and very firm. Let no one, and i mean no one disrespect you.
-X

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The Real Deal. Enough said.

First of all being a playa is bad. That term should never come up in this forum.

To answer the question the best thing you could do is have a chat with her, does she do it when your on your own or is it only when your with your group? If she does it when your alone then she might actually just be jealous.

First off, you mean group. If he was alone, then she would have no need to be jealous of his non-existing companions. And more importantly, are you high?

There's nothing wrong with being a player, and it's almost the exact same thing as a pick-up artist... i'll take that back. It is the same thing.
I am not trying to attack you but your on a forum based around how to sleep with women. Fuck, Shit, Cunt, N*gger, now those are bad words.
So don't go there. Don't go there.
-X
P.S- I win

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The Real Deal. Enough said.

First of all player =/= pick up artist. Players just want the vajayjay while a pick up artist in all reality should follow the rule of leaving them better than you found them. Secondly theres a large population of people on this forum who dont game girls just to have sex. Third you dont win when your post is posibly the most negative thing ive read all day and im quite unhappy that someone with your type of thinking is part of this community.

I second that!

You could ignore her but i suggest you piss her off.

When she's talking shit, ignore her, like she's not even there, and at times maybe look at her with a smile and crack jokes on her, then ignore her again.

What your doing is showing her she's not worth wasting your time and by cracking on her your pissing her off, unless she's some crazy chick and physically attacks you, all she'll do is= talk, that's it then just ignore her again, make fun of her if you want, other than that move on with your life while meanwhile she's stuck trying to get your attention.


A player typically has a purpose on his mind, to sleep with as many girls as he can, usually through lies and false premises: "i love you," " I'll never leave you" etc. He usually cheats or breaks up after he "conquers" the girl, or gets some booty.
A PUA's purpose varies, from meeting new people to sleeping with as many girls, only he doesn't tell them he loves them to build rapport, instead of becoming a girls "boyfriend" he sleeps with them without strings attach and with the girls knowledge of the relationship. A PUA Doesn't Screw over girls.

Hey,
Let me start off by apologizing for being negative or personally attacking you. To me I see a PUA and a player as the same thing. But I am man enough to admit there are differences. PUA's learn and apply the art of seduction to either get a ONS, LTR, or anything happy and good. A Player is a person that uses that skill to get multiple women. It's not always sex.

That's how I tend to veiw it, because the world isn't always a bad place . Anywho, I use player as a general term more towards someone pimping. So let me apologize one more time for making you feel uncomfortable and unhappy. We all make mistakes, but i'll take your advice and not use player around this community if it makes people feel uncomfortable.
-X

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The Real Deal. Enough said.

I agree with Xseducer here, the advice he gave is good and the 'playa' definition of his is completely right.

We all know what a 'playa' is and what they do, and that is: they do multiple women.
Thats the term for a playa, and no matter how many times you'd tell yourself how you aren't a playa, others will still see you as one.

We are 'playa's no more no less, and there is no need to start changing the whole definition for a 'playa' just to defend yourself and to keep yourself just as a regular guy !

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Hey,
Thanks for the backup Stetson. I just wanted to get that through. Not to be nasty about it though. That's were i apologized, not for my belief and knowledge, but for my negative attitude.
-X

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The Real Deal. Enough said.

G*D dammit! This mushy apologizing and forgiveness shit is making me tear up! You guys are the real fucking deal! And I'm glad you are all apart of this community.

As to the original question, you should try to be friends with the bitch. She obviously doesn't understand how cool you are and the only way to change that is to show her. Just go to talk to her, she probably has a crush on you or one of your bros and is just looking for a little attention(a.k.a. dick). Plus she might have hot friends.

If she continues to be a total bitch, make up a rumor about her that completely ruins her life.... haha jk

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Swoop

how are we gonna play "the game" and not call ourselves "players"? idk if its the way i see it but a player is someone who speaks and plays "the game." although i am new to this whole pick up artist thing soooo im not quite sure the difference, and if there is one then i need ta step it up! haha

Ok listen to this guy his right

Actually, trying to make friends with someone whos bullying you all the time (and inside you take it to the heart ofc), is STUPID AND HARD FOR YOU.

This ain't about no values anymore, its that everytime you see her, you remember all the shit. You feel uncomfortable around her, and its NO GOOD FOR YOU. She has nothing to provide to you but uncomfort.

And what are the chances that she will even be friends with you when her friends bully you too.


Just ignore her and she'll look like some attention seeking whore.

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