Ok, I've always been interested in this, I want to know if there is a test to see how alpha male I am?

also if I should be low then is there a really good step by step guide or lessons or even self hypnosis product out there to help me become alpha male?


Totti

Yeah, that test is called "woman."

Being alpha isn't some kind of spectrum where u can be like 67% alpha or something. There are two categories: yes or no.

That's my 2 cents, at least.

fair enough, point taken

Totti

fair enough, point taken

Totti

Well, allow me to elaborate...

Yes, you CAN become alpha if you are not, and you CAN gradually work on it, but you are not actually alpha until you have hit that point of being self-validated and self-assured internally. Yeah, it can take a lot of work, but you can't let your ego get the best of you by allowing yourself to believe that you are alpha when you aren't 100% alpha. Women smell the incongruency a mile away.

Here's a list of the top 8 alpha male traits (from Neil Strauss)

Las Vegas.

L is for Looks.
Genetics are not as important as grooming. Make sure you are wearing stylish cloths that fit you. Also make sure you're hair is trimmed and neat (back of neck is shaved too, girls hate that scraggly shit back there). Wear a conversational piece, something that is interesting that women will talk about (bracelet/necklace/arm band/hat/bright, colorful cloths...).

A is for Adaptability.
Make sure you are laid back, witty, quick on your feet. Be able to be comfortable in many situations. Be able to turn her on and be the bad boy, be able to handle the parents... Make yourself comfortable in any situation.

S is for Strength.
Having the ability to make the girl feel safe. Part of women's hardwiring is to have a man that will protect her. This does not necessarily mean having muscles (although this does help), being able to be confident and not phased by her shit tests projects this. Also having good posture and real-world skills help. Be decisive, assertive, have a strong frame, and be loyal/have moral values. Take charge of situations, be the man.

V is for Value.
What makes you better than the sea of average that the girl has available. Use ESP or other fascinating gambits or routines to convey this. Women want a teacher, someone who can convey dominance over her world. Also includes social proof, having women in your life. Being pre-selected by other women. Being comfortable enough to be C+F and treating an attractive woman like she is no big deal, because you have many attractive women in your life and to you, beauty is common.

E is for Emotional Connection.
The chemistry and spark that allows women to relate to you. Making her laugh, gaining interest in her, being sensitive, having commonalities. Having her feel exited, comfortable, and stimulated around you.

G is for Goals.
Women want men who have ambition, who have a path towards success. If you can sell you goals and make her believe in you, she will want to come along for the ride. Have a 5 year plan.

A is for Authenticity.
Inner game. Be able to make yourself on the inside the same person you are projecting on the outside. This means being content and happy with yourself, and be true with who you are. Women have strong intuition about men, and being authentic shows her that you truly are who you are conveying through routines and sub-communication.

S is for Self worth.
Confidence and being comfortable. Feeling worthy to be in the presence of others, especially beautiful women. Taking up space, make yourself as tall and wide as possible. Keep body open, shoulders back, wide stance. You are the prize.

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