Treat it like you would treat a shit test from a girl. If you pass, you may carry on. If you fail, she will lose attraction for you. Women are always looking for a bigger better deal, that metaphorical Silverback of the tribe that is dominant. If an interrupt enters the set, you MUST acknowledge it immediately, steal his/her frame away, and establish yourself as the center of attention. This goes for female interrupts as well.

It doesn't matter much what you say or do, but you must say or do something. You have to be prepared and knock that obstacle off balance. Anything that comes to mind should be fine, as long as you are being C+F, playful, and showing no signs of weakness.

Muscles mean nothing. He isn't going to wrestle you to death in the club, and he probably has quite low self esteem if he tries to pick on you. Just be spontaneous and not intimidated "Wow, you look just like my friend! He's a total roid monkey though." If he persists, you can give the girl the 'who the fuck is this creeper?' eyes, and get her to walk away with you and rejoin friends or something.

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I appreciate the response..

zen, to answer your question: The thing is, I am not a big person, quite small actually, and other males seem to find me as an easy target to pick on to help out their own self-esteem. For example, if a guy comes up to me and just pushes me, how would I respond to that? It doesn't feel right to act buddy buddy with him after he just pushed me.

Or for instance, I am with a girl and he starts hitting on the girl, with utter disrespect for me. What can I do to divert her attention back to me?

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YH but if you say "dis aint de ryt time to joke, go find your friends" he will feel like an ediote and wont have a response. but am asuming the issue is resolved by now

Hmmm interesting, I am in the same situation I guess, I'm tall and have a reputation for looking after myself and I do.

I tend to ignore insults and carry on talking to the group. Imaguine trying to insult someone when they're completely ignoring the fact you exist and are carrying on with their business?

As for physical violence pushing etc etc, i would stand up tall and question why they're doing it and look at where exactly they touched you as if to say " dont touch what you can't afford" and turn your body away from them.

Hope this helps

Totti

Sarcasm is your friend in this case mate.

Some random comes up and insults you or tries to bully you

You: Wow man you are SO cool, comig up to random people and insulting them, i wish i had your manners mate.

or

You: *jokingly* Seriously, i know you need attention, but DADDY's busy right now, why don't you stroll along and find some friends.

Simple really, as long as it's said with the right tonation, i.e. seriously with an air of steel and a 'seriously don't fuck about' look in your eye, you're good to go.