So I've started gaming and my confidence is going up and I am getting some girls, however I still am very insecure and sensitive. Little things bother me, like some old friends from high school met up in Austin this weekend and had a good time, I never got a call. (this is wat goes through my mind immediatly) Do they not like me anymore? Do they talk shit about me? Fuck them! No its ok they probably just hadn't heard from me in awhile and didn't think to call etc...My mind thinks a million things at once, this goes on with alota stuff. If I am out and just some random person is talking to me and my roomate, if that guy is giving more eye contact to my roomate then he is to me I feel like I am getting less respect or that people just dont like me. I take everything very personally, like if I invite someone on a trip and they say they can't go or something its not that I think they CANT it's more I think like well if I was more fun they would definatly do it. Im so sick of thinkin so negative does anybody have ideas for over coming this? Because technically it has nothing to do with my sarging

Although it doesnt directly relate to sarging, thinking negatively can effect a sarge. like when your about to approach and start thinking to your self "there no way she will talk or why isnt she giving me eye contact...etc"


I suffer from this problem big time too and ultimately i believe that this is one of my biggest problems when it comes to girls. Like when i get an hb's number and am the one who almost always initiates the convo through texting, i am always negative with myself saying "why does she never text me first etc..." i eventually stop talking and that is a lost cause... Its not always with texting... its with all aspects and my being negative all the time tears me up inside.

I would like some help as well as how to stop being negative all the time???? anyone???

EXACTLY!! man the texting thing happens to me literally all the time, it's like my feelings can change like that! I can be having a good day then I feel like a girl gives me a dirty look or I feel like somebody is rude or short with me, and I completely see it as o man everybody hates me.