So i am new to this forum. I have been using negs pretty well but the thing is I found this site after already talking to a girl in school. Im not sure if these are IOI's but if they are any help on what to do next is appreciated.

1.For the first time after class she was waiting for me for about 5 minutes. then she came in and as i was leaving she goes hey i was waiting for you... wait for me

2. I was walking with her and out of no where she brags about how she made new friends on face book, and says o the guy who sits behind me and the guy in front of me(im not friends with her)

I'd say the first one you listed definitely is an IOI. As far as the facebook friending thing goes, the worst thing you could do is to friend her. That makes you look needy, instead see if you can play your cards well enough and she will probably add you.

One thing you should try not to do is get obsessed with what is and what isn't an IOI. It's hard to keep your mind off it, but personally, if I think about IOI's from a girl too much it just makes me more nervous. On some occasions I will get a little confidence boost if I can really tell that I'm getting positive IOI's, but its always hard to tell. Just KNOW that you are the shit, and IOI's won't be such a big deal.

well i had a party and shes like why did u invite me, invite me next time. so last thursday i did, i live far away from her but she said she would ask her sorority sisters.Turns out the party got canceled so my friends said to text her and say "hey the partys off its just a hang out but i still want to see you lets grab something to eat." I thought it was too much too soon but she didnt answer. Im not exactly sure if she got it since she has a different phone company than me. So my question is how should i act when i see her, like nothing happened all non chalant or should i be like im not talking to you, you dont answer my texts..(or something along those lines)

Anything a female stranger tries to get your attention, jumps through hoops (waiting for you), trying to make you jealous, or seems exited to talk to you, it is an IOI.

95% of the time when guys wonder if a girl likes them, she does. But most of the time those said guys fuck it up by not making a move, not returning the IOI's back, or waiting too long and falling into the friend zone. Girls are really quite subtle about their IOIs, but can be blatant about yours "I love your energy! You're like a little ball of joy! Here, give me a hug."

so then where do i go from here ... how do i ask her to hang out...

o by the way thanks for everything so far.. i feel much more confident already.. this site is great thanks guys.. but yea so should i be non chalant about the text i sent her or what... and how do i ask her to hang out??? thanks in advance