I dont know what it is with people they say things to me like "just act like yourself and youll get women." I dont know what it is with people. Everytime they say that to me it feels like im doing something wrong with this becoming a PUA.

Id give more details but right now im a lack of words, im a little angry.

Ive done alot of persoality changes latley, being more positive, and extroverted from my usual self about four months ago.

Could I get some advice on how to deal with this or what to do. I thought being able to be a PUA is a skillset that you adapt to your personality, your still acting yourself your just ignoring the target (MM) and things like that. Would acting yourself be the "nice guy"?


Thanks for responses

it's not just being yourself, but being your BEST self. sounds like your sticking point is your inner game, which means you need to start living an interesting life. take up a sport, hobby, hang out with friends in places you've never been before. do wild things, for instance today i pierced my ears. just dont live an ordinary life, and eventually things will fall into place.

This is what people (including girls) believe that they want. However it is not what attracts them.
You have to make a change, become a person with attractive qualities. Done that? Ok, be yourself.

the people telling you to just be yourself, probably just means well but its up to you to improve yourself. Change is for the good, sometimes you have to be someone else to find the Real you. Dont let what they say anger you or upset you. Just be like "I am being myself" people like that dont like it when others change for the good. Infact it sounds like they are scared of your potential of wannting to improve yourself. It'll take some deication and some ridicals and not an easy process but it might be worth it at the end.

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I don't think that is what they meant by "be your self". I think they are more saying "stop putting on some front/image that is not you". As they may think you are hiding or covering up who you are.

Tell these people you are being yourself. The new and improved self. If someone is quick to judge your new lifestyle do you really want them around?

What I have noticed lately, Women who approach me for whatever reason think I act like "Mr. Cool Guy" I don't think I act that way at all, but I have had that response at least a 1/2 dozen times.

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