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| rsixboy | PostPosted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:09 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:23 am Posts: 45 | | Hey guys, in the past I have not had much problems approaching and talking to women. To be honest, I have been quite successful picking up girls and knowing how to build attraction etc. However, for the past month I couldnt help but notice that I have been absolutely shitty at clubs... I have become VERY beta. I always knew that my game has gone downhill lately, but tonight I truly realized how bad it was. For example tonight, a girl said fuck you to me after I took a picture of her and her friend(they asked if I could take a pic of them and a hobo lol) and I am oblivious as to why she got hostile. Maybe cuz I said she sucked whenever I took a bad picture of them? I dunno, I thought it was a playful neg. Second, when I was in the club I saw a buddy of mine and another guy working a set extremely well. Now in the past, whenever that happened I would immediately walk around and open sets by myself.. however tonight when it happened I just walked around and kept making excuses for myself to make waste time and hope that by the time I get back to them they would be done with the sets. My confidence has gone downhill, and I noticed that others could sense it as well. I would always be the one having to stumble out of the way when a group was walking towards me, when Im leaning at a bar people would just totally push me aside as if I wasnt there etc. I want to get back to where I was, and ultimately become better but as of now, things seem very shitty for me... Is this a case of RAFC? Could it be because I havnt been sarging as hard as I used to? Does anyone else go or gone through the same cycle that Im going through?
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| BIGRED | PostPosted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 11:44 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Aug 23, 2008 7:20 am Posts: 159 AOL: BIGRED63M0B Location: DeKalb\Chi-Town | | No im not having the same problem but i can help you, you need to just get your confidence back. How do you do this? go out and open sets, 5 a day. It could be single sets mixed sets, all guy sets just open and dont worry about the outcome. Soon enough your game WILL return. And after your comfortable again and your still getting "fuck yous" I suggest revamping you game, stay away from cocky funny for a while untill you can see when its appropiate _________________ "HE WHO MAKES A BEAST OF HIMSELF GETS RID OF THE PAIN OF BEING A MAN"
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