Alright so I'm in high school. There is a girl who has a boyfriend, but they do nothing. When I say nothing I mean absolutely nothing. Not even kissing. Basically I don't think she likes him, but is too nice to break up with him.

It's like an elementary school relationship. That said, how do I take her out without her "boyfriend" getting mad?

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--Mylo

this is a journey, you need to ask yourself some questions before you embark on this journey.
1.) what can I do better than this guy is currently?
2.) is this really going to benefit anyone other than myself?
3.) Do I truly plan on treating her better than he treats her?


now that i have given you the warning, i no give you the power to use at your own discresion:

two effective boyfriend destroyers:

1. the stability method. in order for a girl to break up with her current boyfriend to be with you. you have to be a SUREFIRE catch for her. i mean no rational girl is going to dump her boyfriend for a CHANCE with a guy cmon be reasonable. so to do this start treating this like a long term relationship in progress. its up to you to figure out what you can do that is APPROPRIATE!!!!!! eg not bringing her flowers. you just gotta be a generally stable man.

2.) your everything he is not, she complains about him to you than you raise your value by saying something that gives you the qualities he lacks. i copy from the game:

We were witnessing group theory in action. The more Mystery per¬
formed for the guys, the more the blonde clamored for attention. And every
time, he pushed her away and continued talking with his two new friends.
"I don't usually go out," Baio was telling Mystery. "I'm over it, and I'm
too old."
After a few more minutes, Mystery finally acknowledged the blonde. He
held his arms out. She placed her hands in his, and he began giving her a
psychic reading. He was employing a technique I'd heard about called cold
reading: the art of telling people truisms about themselves without any
prior knowledge of their personality or background. In the field, all
knowledge—however esoteric—is power.
With each accurate sentence Mystery spoke, the blonde's jaw dropped
further open, until she started asking him about his job and his psychic
abilities. Every response Mystery gave was intended to accentuate his youth
and enthusiasm for the good life Baio said he had outgrown.
"I feel so old," Mystery said, baiting her.
"How old are you?" she asked.
"Twenty-seven."
"That's not old. That's perfect."
He was in.

Thanks for the tips.

The thing is, I don't need to destroy the boyfriend. They aren't even really dating. She already likes me. I just want to know how I can bring it up in conversation without sounding needy.

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--Mylo

you can't because needing to know these types of things are needy. i have about 4 girls right now that im "talking to" and they could be out banging hobo's right now for all i care. to gain you must give up sorry man its a cold world. just game her like hell and be confident that you are better than he is.

I just don't want to make him feel bad. Dammit. I guess that's the way it's gotta be.

_________________
--Mylo

Yeah there's this chica with a boyfriend that i would like to get with (so im going to obviously try). only difference is I'm in college and the girl's boyfriend goes to a college not too far away. but far enough. The tips and planning the journey is a great step forward to completing this task, for me it works out great because I at college with her I can do things for her he cant