......as a gurl that just doesnt want to get involved with guys at all?? And are some women too stupid to actually pick up hints that u like them or watn them?? Was gaming a HB7.5 for a while and wen she flaked on the date i didnt speak to her for days but she kept tryna talk to me...so i gave in, in the end and just told her strait that i like her and wanted to get serious but i needed to see her outside of msn and see how things go...but shes liek oh thats wot u've wanted all along as if the hints werent obvious enuf...but i was getting reall good feedback...she even sed she liked me at one stage...but once confronted shes now saying...maybe i over exaggerated how i felt about u??? i dunno wot to do?

I've found that directly telling a girl you like her is a very bad move. It sort of.. gives her the power in deciding where you and her go as the option of instant rejection is there for her.

As for that.. Maybe she did like you but then the attraction faded hence her later reaction to what you said.

yeah, i would definitely never recommend just admitting you have a big crush on her or something middle-schoolish like that. i mean, telling her you like things about her during conversation is a BIG plus, but only do it occasionally and don't put her on a pedestal as you do it.