OMG! Am I gonna have to "mommy" you guys and give you a sex talk? LOL! Tact, I really hate to say this . . . but you gave the girl a preview of what you were like in bed BEFORE you even got inside her!!! Not a good thing to do. Yes, you do want to tease . . . but dry humping for 2 hours on the very night you met?!!
I was a virgin less than 10 years ago. Yes, it can be painful for the girl the very first time and maybe the next few times. It was for me. Yes, the guy CAN feel the hymen IF it is still fully intact. The hymen can be broken by a dildo . . . even riding a bike! So if you don't feel the hymen that doesn't necessarily mean she's not a virgin.
If she is a TRUE virgin, then she's not gonna be "Oh, you can't fuck me but I WILL give you a blow job!" It still took me a while AFTER losing my virginity before I even gave my first blow job. Plus a virgin probably wouldn't be so eager to drop her clothes.
Just some things to think about . . . guys you'll KNOW when you've TRULY got a virgin in your grasp because she won't know what she's doing even IF she's done plenty of research. Trust me, I know!
~Cali