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 Post subject: How to turn a girl OFF!?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 5:07 pm 
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Need some help with this one guys.
This one girl I'm seeing has gotten waayy clingy and a little scary.
Any tips on getting rid of her without hurting her feelings or anything? I really wanna leave her better than I found her. :)

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 9:22 pm 
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Do the opposite of attraction would be the obvious.

Without hurting her.. Just tread carefully and if push comes to shove or you feel necessary, tell her.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 10:19 pm 
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stop hanging out so much, talking ot her on the phone, and dont anwser her texts so much...that way you disassociate from her and start hanging out with other girls to let her in on the picture......cause really if this chick is so into you nothing you really do will shield her from being hurt 100%

also, the longer you take the longer she is attached and the longer you are wasting her time hoping for something that will never be.....so be up front with her and safe her some time...

if you liked a girl and she didnt like you would you like her taking 2 or 3 weeks to disassociate from you or to have her be somewhat bluntly honest and tell you its a no go.....
which in that case then you can move on....


choice is up too you.....

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 5:47 pm 
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Potentially in a somewhat similar situation.

K-closed a HB6/7 in a club last week, then f-closed her few days later. Talk in between was always extremely flirty and sugesstive. Never once was it serious or talked if we like each other.

I'm really glad I managed to keep the frame going from the club night and there was no chance of her flaking for day2. Something I previously would have failed on and been faced with LMR if not f-closed after the club.

The girl is nice but not really gf suitable, possible fb instead. Pretty sure she understand neither want a relationship but she might get different ideas. I'd feel guilty if i just f-closed then didn't talk to or see her again (same as OP I'd like to leave her better than I found her) so some direction on staying friends or suggesting f-buddies would be great.


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