What is the borderline between kino and sexual harassment?

Use the force, trust your feelings. It depends what the girl thinks. Kino escalation is a delicate process and if you respect the kino escalation ladder you will have plenty of indicators before getting to the private parts. A hand on the ass is a bit forward to start with but holding hands is ok.

kino can be done in many ways...

i will only deal with two opposite types now

gentle kino:
this can be very subtle and could never be considered harassement... touching her shoulder, trying to hold her hand and if she doesn't want letting it go... (you're not imposing anything, you're just leading the way... if she wants to follow that's her decision) - so that is definetly not harassement.

aggresive kino:
also called the caveman technique, works only when she is very attracted to you and wants to fuck you but for some reason she has emotional blockages and gives you mixed signals... you have to be very careful with this... otherwise yes you could be sued for harrassement... this is only done when you know for certain she wants you... and don't over do it... look into her eyes and if you see that she says NO but in her eyes it's "i'm so horny for you, i'm not ready yet though" you can continue... but if you see a NO that is congruent with her eyes and bodylanguage than at all means STOP...

no kino:
you can seduce with no kino as well, esspecially when she kino-es you all the time... or when you are so relaxed that you don't care... but at some point you will have to kino to get things going...

the worst thing is not to try kino, not to kill the just friends barrier... not to let her know you want her...

that's the worst choice...

so choose first option for begineers, second for advanced, and third if you still want to be AFC

good luck!

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There is no diffinitive line such as where to touch, how you're touching etc. The way you tell whether you've crossed into harrassment is whether she likes it or not; if not, then you're harrassing, if she does like it, then it's still a good touch. Kino is short for kinesthetic, meaning touch; so it's all kino whether she likes it or not, but you're aiming for what you were taught in sex ed is a good touch and not a bad touch. You may end up fingering a girl on the dance floor and that's still a good touch (indeed a very good touch, hehe) but that's only if she likes it, so it all comes down to judgement.

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Isnt it obvious, A talk from the office lawer or a letter in the post telling you to attend court
If she doesnt respond after an attempt or two, just cut ur losses. Its all judgement but a normal sing of her liking it will be more IOI's, kino back etc etc.

I'm worried about why this is coming up?!?

If it feels natural to you it will feel natural to her

jaybot i totally agree with you

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