So all the girls at my school think I can't get girls. Just learned that today. How do I change that perception of me? Because I think that girls think that no other girls have dated me and therefore will not date me themselves.

Thanks.

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--Mylo

Game a girl, make her your girlfriend, and parade her around the school. Also try to be content and happy with any situation you are in. Try to exude confidence and alpha qualities.

I would have to ask why they think that you can't get girls? Have you ever gotten a girl? And why is your lack of attraction such common knowledge?

Well, the first girl I was with was a person who no one likes anymore and the other one I did nothing with. It was a middle school relationship. Technically we were dating, but we did nothing. So yea, not too much experience with women. I want all that to change though.

I have no idea how people know this stuff. I guess they just assume. But I want to change my attitude to make it look like I have a ton of girls in my life, even if I don't.

I'm working on inner game at the moment. Any suggestions on furthering my knowledge?

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--Mylo

Read 'The Game,' (Neil Strauss) read 'Double your Dating' (David D), look into Mystery Method, look into Real Social Dynamics, possibly 'Speed Dating' and NLP stuff too if you want to.

Read the Game, and Mystery Method. I just can't seem to put it to good use. Whenever I try it, girls say, "You try to hard." Or tell their friends that.

But I guess I'll keep on trying. I'm trying to work on my voice tonality and qualities at the moment. I've learned that the way you speak is VERY important.

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--Mylo

Yea, it's more important than what you say. You have to learn the theory, body language, and subtleties behind the methods. Those are the most important parts. I wouldn't even use routines on girls in school at all. Just learn how to be cocky + funny, be outgoing, confident, and not being phased by anything.
If you run up to a girl and say in a monotonous girl "Who lies more, men or women?" and don't follow up or change body positioning at all, you will be shut down. Right now in your school you have quite low social value, you are in damage control now. Correct your inner game and your outer game will take care of itself. Forget routines all together (although knowing some cool tricks/gambits always comes in handy).

You are going to have to shut off all displays of attraction towards women all together, for now. You are going to have to make them attracted to you first by being interesting, funny, and a person of value. Try just being playful for now and try to gain some rapport with other girls, and hopefully get some female friends. After that other women will be more attracted and less threatened by you. School is a closed system so you have some work ahead of you. Try easier.

Plethora: That is the best advice that anyone has ever given me. Thanks man. I think that is exactly what I've got to do. I've been working on some NLP stuff to change/challenge my beliefs.

I've realized, nothing is real, it's all just a game. Everything about a person can be changed and modified with a little bit of work. And as nlp says "Humans work perfectly."

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--Mylo

I think you recognition of the girls thinking that you could never get a girl or had been in a relationship before is holding you back. Don't acknowledge that idea, rather think AMOG, that you can get any girl you want.

Try to build some bridges with girls/guys, get some reputation of being fun and popular, treat it as training. Do not come off too strong when talking to the girls either, don't get into LJBF zone, you should probably just read up on what you should do to game some girls.

If they are saying you're trying to hard that's not a bad thing, but you displaying that you are is the problem, be more manipulative but don't let it show.

That's probably what I'd do, but I'm not very well trained in the game for you to follow my advice directly.

You got this man. Let me know how it works out for you.

Now you have to realize that nothing is a game, everything is real!

Try picking up a girl outside of school where nobody will destroy it for you. Bring her around and show her to the audience. BTW, something you do is wrong because if you use the MM everything should be the opposite of trying too hard. It is all in the attitude and the structure of the game. Do not limit yourself by the routines you read about.

Well, I realize that I'm doing something wrong. I think what it is is I have WAY too much energy when meeting people. They think I'm trying too hard to talk to them. The negs are ineffective because of how I'm saying them.

And that's why I'm currently working on inner game. I gotta work on the subtleties before I get into the routines. I'll update you guys with my progress periodically on what is going on.

Thanks.

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--Mylo