Ive always wondered about this part of the game, I never know wether i should call/txt the girl the morning after ive met her in a club etc, or if i should wait a while first.

Id appreciate everyones input on this because i feel this is a part of my game that needs to be handled

Thanks

Orthodox

This question I'm sure has been asked before. If you search the forum you can probably find where other people have answered it if you want other perspectives.

Here is what I do, and it is by no means the end all be all of pick up methodology. Let's say when you go out this evening you meet a girl and get her #.

I will be texting her about an hour later or on my way home. I will say something that brings her back to a good moment we had. For example, I may repeat the punch line of some joke we laughed at or something like that. It's not a drawn out message it just something to mentally bring her back to those good emotions she felt with me. This is a technique called "Anchoring" in NLP. She thinks of me and she smiles...that's the effect I'm going for. That is a powerful little tool. This doesn't have to be complicated so keep it simple and short.

Anyways, I wait between 24 & 48 hours, before I call her to actually talk to build comfort on the phone or invite her out for a day 2. I have a good rate of success with this.

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Thanks for your advice, it sounds like a genius way to do it. I like the idea of anchoring aswel, when you go out sarging do you drink much alcohol or do you tend to stay sober so you can be on ur best game?

Great question. #1 Know your limit #2 Stay well below it.

I'm not one of these guys that will sit here and tell you absolutely I don't drink in field because I do. Most of that is Redbull though. I LOVE REDBULL!!! Some guys will go out and not drink at all. This is how I started out because I was learning and figured I didn't need anymore barriers than what I already had.

As I got better I started having a few more drinks. Some guys I'm friends with go out with their regular friends to drink and party. Then other nights to sarge they don't drink.

Women will sometimes say, "Hey, why are you not drinking?" I tell them I'm a sober driver and they leave me alone all the time. I make some comment about how it sucks but someone has to be responsible. End of discussion.

I guess what I am telling you is if you want to go out and have a few beers then enjoy. It's your time off and your money! Just stay below what you think is your limit, if you're tipsy it's hard to concentrate, and this game is mental.

Hope that gives you a few ideas.

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hey man. this sounds like excellent advice. can you elaborate a bit more on the concept of anchoring in that text?
i think i understand what you're saying but just want to make sure...
do you try to remind her of a high-point in the conversation you had by bringing up something funny YOU said or something funny that happened around you? or is that irrelevant as long as it was something funny?

I'm not an expert an NLP by any means but I just understandthe concepts that they teach. You have it down when you said you are trying to remind her of a "high-point" of the interaction. I usually use something funny that is going to make her smile, but it doesn't have to be something funny. You can use something sexual that you said as well. It all depends on what emotion you want her to anchor to you.

Hope that helps clarify that a bit more.

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Yeah your advice helps alot actually, id like to think im a pretty good drinker but the next load of times i go out sarging i think ill stay sober, i mean its a win win situation, you save money caus ur not spending loads on drinks and your also on the top of your game!

Do you tend to go out sarging in nightclubs alot then? I always find that i do quite well sarging in clubs however im not a big fan of it! Alot of the time people are totally different the day after youve met them in the club, but then i guess thats where anchoring comes into it!

Do you always peacock when you go out?

Orthodox