This is a main problem that really always haunts me and i don’t know wat to do. I met this girl through an online facebook game and i did everything perfect got her aim and we’ve been talking and everything is going great we should be hanging out next weekend. Now im not a beginner but here is where the problem comes. She is a flirt and you can see through facebook that she does flirt with other guys she knows. Now she has shown interest in me but my question is. How do you know if a flirty girl likes you since she flirts with a lot of people. Is there something i can do or say over aim to c if she likes me or that shes intrested or am i i just every other guy. Their must be a way to tell over aim like some ways to c if shes intrested, what can i do.

I used to wonder the same thing man.. But you cant take that apporach since, unless I misunderstand, you have never really even personally hung out with her. You have to understand that if she is flirting with others and includes you that this should be a good sign because she sees you as a potential mate and not probably not a friend.

Also if she is used to flirting with other men your going to have to show her that you personally have value above most of the others frusterated chumps. Dont try to rush her online, and wait to see if she likes you, if you want her to then you need to meet, make comfort, flirt, and attempt to close. Even if you dont close at least show her that you think she is cute and kind of fun. Dont let her know that you like her though, cuz then it just gives her power over you. you need to just see if she would like to hang out sometime cuz you know a great party/event/concert what ever.. that will be alot of fun and your going out to it in the future, tell her about it BUT DONT INVITE HER AT FIRST.

Just allude to it and days later or what ev bring it up again and then possibly invite her so she already thinks its gonna be fun.