Hi guys
Info: here are the stats
-This girl is in my class and she is half Asian half white, Im white btw. Reason i bring thisthis because some girls refuse to date outside thei race.
-She is between 8 and 9 on the looks department
-I have spoken to her once about class work(classes just started)
-20 ppl in class i sit behind her
-Should i add her on my facebook
-I do know few girls in this class, how can i use this to my advantage?
How can i initiate a conversationwith her or ask her out. As you can see im a noob so any advice will appreciated.
Also i hope i posted in the right place


Thank You
Trajan

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Just ask for some help on some of the material in class, and if she's smart, you can neg her about it (involve the class you're in), lightly compliment her after the help (saying how she's smart and cute)

Don't add her on Facebook.

Usually only full blooded asians reject those outside their race. Since she is half, it is less likely.

stop being a puss and go up to her someday actually id ask her for a pen.....after class give it back and ask her for her name...or ask her for help on homework, or whatever you can do to talk to her....

you kow some girls in the class id say get a group toghher borrow her pen one day and after say me and some friends gettting toghther how bout you tag along or somethign like that

Trajan, you've got a lot of work cut out for you here. But if you're ready and willing, I can help you.

Firstly, race isn't an issue. If you seriously believe race counts, then it does. It's all about personality. It really is. By the way, Asian girls are usually pining for white guys more than anyone. I've seen this first-hand from many of my friends who date Asian women.

Secondly, DO NOT add her on any sort of social networking site until you've both shared at least one or two comforting conversations that aren't related to school. You telegraph too much interest by adding her without reason. SHE WILL FIND IT STRANGE.

When it comes to gaming in class, it's a whole different world. I usually use gambits so that she's able to listen to the lecture and have fun with me at the same time. My first suggestion is the use of your notebook. Yes, the notebook. I've used it plenty of times to spark up conversation. Whether it be for a game of tic-tac toe, hangman, a drawing contest, or even just doodling whatever comes to mind. I also highly suggest creating crude doodles of your professor and asking her what else you could include in the drawing. This not only conveys your sense of humor, but it gets you two in a creative conversation.

ALSO, ALSO ALSO ALSO ALSO. BE THE CLASS CLOWN.

I can't emphasize this enough. Whenever I see an opportunity to throw a funny joke to the class, I hop on it. Usually it's a witty one-liner, not a knock-knock joke type of thing. However, be sure not to just blurt out anything that comes to mind, you don't want to be the village idiot who thinks shouting out vegetable names is funny. When you win the class over with your humor, then not only will she start to see what an interesting person you are, but everyone else will see it as well. So even if it doesn't work out with her, you've still got new friends made at the end of the day!

Any other questions, please let me know! Good luck.

Wow thanks alot for the advice man i really appreciate it. Ill definitley take your some of your advice and use it. The thing is I know what to do after i talked to her, but my problem is talking to her or finding the time to do it. I meet alot of girls going to class early, but this girl either shows up on time or late so i don't have alot to work with. Ill try talkin to her after class.
Anyway I got class tomorrow so ill keep you guys posted on how things went.

Thanks again
Trajan

Edit also posted this in the approach section cause i think this was the wrong section to do it.

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