Quote:
Please guys. I know this sounds pathetic, but I need some help and Im going crazy lol. I just dont know what to do. Even after I open a girl and neg her (once every blue moon), Ive got nothing to follow up! Im a fake PUA! Maybe its partly because Im worried about what my friends might think if I fail, Im not sure.
First off, I want you to stop beating up on yourself & try to relax. Try and understand that you going out and even approaching once in a while is a whole lot better than the average guy who just hopes when approach him in his home while he's playing some video game.
Your problem isn't know what to do, your problem is mostly that you need a routine stack to follow & A SWIFT KICK IN THE ASS. You need some story telling skills as well. You go through some things with negging and stuff in A2 and you are about done. You neeed to get yourself a routine stack with DHV material that are just stories from your life. When you have these stories you'll have stuff to talk about.
Most of this in in
YOUR HEAD. If you don't want to use an opinion opener then use something situational. This is more spontaneous but comes across as natural which it is. The bottom line is it really doesn't matter what you open with. It matters how you say it more than what you say. As a prime example a good friend of mine of the forum would walk up to girls and say, "Frozen Turkey!" to open them. We did this testing this theory. It actually worked when I didn't think it would.
Who cares what your friends think? You are doing this to improve yourself. You aren't doing this for your friends, your family, or anyone else.
YOU ARE DOING THIS FOR YOU! Don't worry about what others think and if they think you are doing well enough.
JUDGE YOURSELF BY YOUR OWN STANDARDS.
If you need more help let me know or post it here.
CHAT
