Hey all,

There is a HB9 at work, shes been engaged for like 5 years and i know from the things she says that shes only with this guy because she afraid of being single and all of her friends are getting married.

Anyway, we are always flirting and something about the way she looks at me, i can just tell, theres a chance we could get it on and im dying to shag this bird...i mean dying! lol

Work is usually a bad idea, but i dont care, im leaving soon anyway. How should i play this??...what should i do to test the waters so to speak??

Thanks in advance

This sounds like a hard one. If I was going to try it, I would do the follwoing:

nvite her and other colleagues out for a social gathering like happy hour. Try to make sure she comes without her fiance. At the social gathering run light attraction on her, but not in such an obvious way that other colleagues take notice. Be the life of the party within the group (converse with everyone, be alpha, etc.) and gain social value. I'd suggest using alcohol to your advantage so by the end of the night you need a ride home or you suggest she needs a ride home. At some point try to isolate and run qualification and build comfort since you should already have attraction based on being your social value.

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This sounds like a hard one. If I was going to try it, I would do the follwoing:

nvite her and other colleagues out for a social gathering like happy hour. Try to make sure she comes without her fiance. At the social gathering run light attraction on her, but not in such an obvious way that other colleagues take notice. Be the life of the party within the group (converse with everyone, be alpha, etc.) and gain social value. I'd suggest using alcohol to your advantage so by the end of the night you need a ride home or you suggest she needs a ride home. At some point try to isolate and run qualification and build comfort since you should already have attraction based on being your social value.

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Cheers for the idea, but it wouldnt work. People at my work dont socialise with each other outside of work much as we all live in totally different areas so getting home is a bitch if your drinking.

Whatever move i make, it needs to be in work hours, or by trying to get her out with me after work, just the two of us, something innocent!

Hmmm....I wouldn't risk it at work due to shit like sexual harassment and a woman's perception of people finding out and spreading rumors within the company.

I would suggest trying to get her to go out with your friends and she brings some friends along. Only problem is that the fiance is likely to show up.

This seems to be a tough one.

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