Okay guys here is the situation

I met this girl on the first day of classes in college, we were both freshman and had a few classes together so she has sat next to me alot and stuff because she dosen't know anyone else. Now i am a pretty nice guy, im not "the nice guy" but because of how friendly i have been to her i dont want to fall into that trap.

I invited her out to dinner, she mentioned she liked sushi one day so im taking her to a sushi place. How on this date do i need to carry myself and act to show her i want to lay her and not be her friend. What type of conversation should i focus on and how should i carry myself body language wise. any precautions or tid bits of advice will be greatly appreciated.

btw every time i post i get really good help and i just wanna thro out a thanks to everyone

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My advice: you should be taking her out for sushi after you fuck her, not before.

Hey this isn't just a bump. I have the exact same problem. Approach Anxiety is nearly non-existent for me, I can make her laugh, disarm her friends ect. Its at that point I lose it. I see her going home at the end of the night with some guy and I have a feeling its because I am not saying the right things to let her know I want her to come home with me. Maybe I am afraid of rejection at this stage of the conversation or something but it sucks because I put in the work and some other guy reaps the benefits. (not a clock block or AMOG. She usually is done talking to me and then finds someone else.) She will give me all the signs that she is ready to take Kino further than I have already taken it (IE unprovoked kiss on the cheek or something of that nature) but then I freeze. If someone more exprienced will lay out the path I'll run down it. Thanks.

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I have only 3 words to say:

- KINO!!!!!
- Good Luck

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Ok, if you can go somewhere else aswell as the sushi restaurant, you wanna carry her through a range of emotions and the problem with dinner for trying to atract her is that conversation is the main focus. If u can find something else to do at dinner and after it.
In temrs of body langauge im sure u know what sort of stuff, be confident, and a bit of a risk taker(DHV)
oh and one more thing...KINO!

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i wouldnt take her to sushi. id take her somewhere you choose, so she's complying with your decision. sushi would be a day 2 once you get a successful d1 out of the way. id say a chucki cheese or somewhere fun and child like so that way you can easily put the kino on hard.