| Guys, I need your help!
First off, I'm a newbie, so please excuse my mistakes or whatever, but I have a prospect and I'd like to run it by you guys here because I think it's my best chance. It's a little long, but PLEASE bare with it.
I'm sure you guys know facebook (for those that don't, it's a myspace-like website where you can meet people or keep friends). I was in a class with a girl a few months ago who was pretty good-looking. We never spoke to each other until halfway through the semester, when she saw me in the hall and approached and started conversation with me about class. I thought that was interested but made nothing of it. Later that night, I went online, found her on facebook, and added her. Here and there I'd send a message about class and she'd send one back. On the last day of class, afterwards, she approached me and asked we talked about both switching to different schools for the next semester. She told me where she applied to and I told her where I applied and she asked me if I heard back. I told her no and that I was waiting and she told me there was a hotline you could call and check your status with and kept telling me to call. I didn't want to at the moment (for stupid reasons) so I told her I'd call later and she kept insisting here and there. In the meantime, she followed me around the ENTIRE school, talking about this and that and this and that, and I truly felt like she was interested. Somewhere in there, she dropped the b-word; she mentioned her boyfriend.
I looked at this as her way of fucking with me (from reading these forums, I see that it's called a 'shit test') so I played with it and pretended like it didn't bother me. After a while, we said goodbye and that was that. She never sent me another message again so I tried to be a prick and on her birthday, posted one that said "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!" as if to say I didn't give a shit that she was with a guy and that's not why I spoke to her and that it didn't phase me, I was still going to wish her a happy birthday. I wanted to play along and confuse her.
Anyway, it should be mentioned that on her facebook page, she always posts provocative pictures of herself in her bedroom, wearing hardly anything, with seductive captions like "would you want me to be your southern belle" and shit like that. She obviously loves the attention and many guys comment on the pics. I might have made the mistake of doing so myself.
Anyway, the other day, after months of not speaking to each other, I decided screw it, and sent her a message saying something like; you switched schools so you don't wan to talk to me anymore? to see what she'd reply. After a day, she wrote back, telling me it wasn't like that and being friendly. We spoke about where she was going on vacation in a little while and this and that and she was online, so our conversations were in real-time. Everything was going fine until I asked her who takes all those pictures? She told me she used a tripod and then asked me why I asked. I told her because I "wanted to know who the lucky bastard was who got to take those shots!" and all of a sudden, she didn't reply anymore. I guess she felt like she won, or she didn't want to be hit on.
Low and behold, just now, after about 5 or 6 days, I see she's written back. This is what she wrote: OooO no lucky bastard in my life now haha. But I am teaming up with photographer on the 17th of this month hopefully.
WHAT DO I DO NOW??? Please help!!! Now it's getting interesting and the clock is ticking!!!
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