OK - I'll just lay this out here. I have a SERIOUS case of oneitis. She is my best friend's wife. I've been in love with her for 8 years (before she was married and when she was only 4 years deep into her relationship). She's known how I felt about her the entire time and still nothing happened. I probably screwed it up because I was too caught up in how I felt about her.

I never had a problem with PU before her. After getting rejected by her, my self-esteem plummeted and has barely returned to its normal level. My PU game was in the toilet for most of those years. After she got married I realized that no matter how much I want it, nothing will ever happen between us. I also realized that I need to polish my PU game back up so I can get out there and meet some other HBs.

I'm sure the oneitis would be easier to resolve if it wasn't for the fact that the 3 of us own a business together. Before I met her I just thought of girls as stupid and solely as sex objects. After getting to know her I realized that she is SOOOO different than most of the other girls out there. She is an 11 and she has an IQ of like 140+. She's also very chill - almost like one of your guy friends. Did I also mention she's an 11?

Now my problem is that I'm comparing every girl I meet to her and no one stacks up. I don't know what to do. My only guess is that I need to get out there and bang as many chicks as possible. But at the same time I want to meet someone to settle down with. Where do all the hot, smart chicks hang out and how do I get one? Or what else should I be doing?

GFTOW and stop comparing others to other people. Look at every woman from a fresh natural perspective and learn how to appreciate someone all over again. Every time.

Seriously GFTOW.

wow ok man your in some serious shit here, i know i shouldnt be offering advice b/c i still AFC but i've also had One-Itis's and the best way i have coped by that is just to avoid all contact with them, just ignore them and basically not to talk to them but thats gonna be really hard 4 u seeing as though u have a buisness together, so yeah i recommend that u take the guy above me's advice, get a fresh perspective and just move on buddy. i know its easier said than done but its whats best 4 u right, go tapsome ass!

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