hey yall

what does it mean when a girl misses you when you are gone, but that the attraction is lost when you are with her.

how to get this situation, and how to make it cool when she is with you aswell

also i know a situation with exact the opposite: when the guy is with the girl its cool, but when he's not there she does not miss him.

greetz

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Good question.


She either thinks of you as a good friend, or then you suck really hard doing day 2s !


Now the other one, the girl is having enough fun at the moment to not miss him.


Spare some more information for a better answer please.

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ok well

i heard a female friend of mine talk about her ex boyfriend, she dumped him cuz he moved away from her.
she said he liked him when he was arround, but when he was gone she did not miss him.

also a male friend of mine had this girlfriend, and im also in this kind of situation;
the female friend misses him when he was gone, but when they were together she didnt really like him that much

these are common situations as far as i know, i was wondering how do they come into existance and how to fix them both cuz it seems like half the work is done in both situations.

greetings

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Okay:
In the first case, the boyfriend was giving way too much comforting attention to the girl. So while he was around the girl had alot of fun, but when he was gone... The girl had nothing she should've missed for.

Now take some attention away from the girl... Now she haves something to miss for !

Now this next one is all in your head. Its all about yourself if you are going to have a great time with a girl. This situation might be created (in your head) for example: when a girl resists your kino.


I've field tested both of these theories.

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from my perspective, and that is the female perspective...this girl is not head over heels for you. if a girl likes someone, she thinks about him all the time. and when when she is not with him, she will text him or call him etc...

that is not to say all is lost though. try hanging out with other girls and make sure she is aware that she is not your only choice. sometimes the realization that she has "competition" for your attention will get her missing you more. now that is not always the case, but a possiblity.

hope that helped!